yes. and there’s also a correlation between survival mode and not wanting to dress well, adorn yourself, do self care, do your hair, nourish yourself. you just don’t have energy to care about beauty and sensuality because your nervous system is busy keeping you safe.
Part of having a strong vocabulary is confidently using words you don’t fully know the definition of, but somehow you know you’re using them perfectly.
ask a woman why she hates men she'll tell you a horrifying story involving violence, abuse, and harassment. ask a man why he hates women he'll complain about feminists on tiktok, gold diggers, and a girl who once friend-zoned him and wouldn't date him
You should have things you don't do, places you don't go to, substances you don't take, words you don't say
By all means, have Principles and Standards.