It will help you to know that everyone is selfish, including you, of course, and that ultimately everyone is always working for their own interests. This includes your wife, no matter how good, loving or selfless she may seem. Never lose sight of the fact that human beings are naturally driven by self interest!
@ElenimoC Only as extinct, if your logic follows, as arithmetic. AI solves the coding problem the way calculators solved the arithmetic. But after a while one quickly starts to see the difference between arithmetic and mathematics.