reminder that if non dualism is too “extreme” or daunting for you, take a step back! its a new concept, let yourself digest it how YOU need to. not everything will be the same for everyone.
There is nothing hard about comprehending that preferences can be rooted in prejudice.
“I would never date a fat person”
“I would never date a dark skinned person”
“I would never date a bisexual man”
None of these negate prejudice because you deem them as preferential.
no fr i should've stopped before, nothing is anything at all, you guys do whatever and i'll do whatever makes sense TO ME.
It's always the meaning we give to things, not what xyz person said in your reality. Think for yourself and do whatever idgaf.