Devan Ironside

Saying what weak men can't and strong men won't.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

On Substack: The Ethics of 'Gaming' Mature Women: what men owe - and don't owe - women who've outlived their sexual power
https://t.co/aNDlC1NvPZ

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@BaneThe76451 Yes. I think a lot of women should be careful what they wish for. Shakespeare said:

"Heat not a furnace for your foe so hot
That it do singe yourself.”

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@BrianAtlas She 'doesn't have a boyfriend' because she rejects 99.9% of men who approach her, and the men she selects are the same men every other woman selects.

Also, I think her personality may be getting in the way, but that's just a guess.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

Women who are attractive and not mentally ill are often locked up in stable relationships. Those not in relationships are much more likely to suffer from one of those disorders, meaning the dating market is populated by a high percentage of women with these disorders.

This is why PUA tactics work on a high percentage of women.

Whether a man's self-worth should be tied to his ability to seduce large numbers of mentally unstable women is another question.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

The 'brains' are here in the form of AI companions. Once engineers iron out the skin feel and microexpressions in the face, the bodies will be too. I used to be pessimistic, about the possibilities, but now I give it 10years.

If they really get it right, customers won't be just 18-year-olds.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@BrianAtlas Simple. The men she likes are extremely rare, as in 1 in 1,000. Any man she is capable of having any feelings for whatsoever has 150 options, better than her.

Wanting 'a man who wants her' would require lowering her standards to a guy who is 1 in 5. Ain't gonna happen.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@RationalMale @BradWilcoxIFS Yes, exactly. If married men are statistically wealthier, it's because women tend to choose wealthier men to marry in the first place (or at least men with high earning potential), not because marriage increases wealth.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

Left, strong 7. Right, very generous 4.

[Brian Atlas @BrianAtlas]

CRIMINALIZE MAKEUP NOW!

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@apxmindset Also, gobs of 'troon' makeup. Her older self can only hope to compete by using lots and lots of makeup.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@briant_bear This is truth. When I confront my wife about *direct* contradictions she can't explain away, she either says, "Well..." with intent to argue, but then stops and that's the end, or she laughs.

There is no concept of "Sorry, I was wrong."

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@Pine_Ghosts @IPAhebrew @RealChrisLangan I'm concerned you might be right. The 'Ziobanksters' as Chris calls them do not appear to be too concerned with the well-being of ordinary Jews in general. The opposition you speak of will be directed against ordinary Jews, and not the Ziobanksters.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@RationalMale Yes. It's all too common to read in a scientific paper, "Our results suggest X, but we still believe Y."

X is the honest interpretation and Y is the dogmatically held mainstream belief.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@LizzyStarrrdust The word 'hysteria' originates from the Greek word for uterus and many ancient cultures believed the organ played a role in 'female' behavior.

Interesting how modern medicine has rediscovered something that has been known for millennia.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@BrianAtlas Indoctrination, hormones and social/legal incentives.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

There exist men who are not all that interested sex, but this women will never meet them because such men will never approach her.

Also, of the men who did approach, she chose the 'hot' ones (i.e. those most accustomed to getting easy sex and the first to leave if they don't get it).

[Brian Atlas @BrianAtlas]

Enjoy your sexless relationship with this lovely lady!

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@RationalMale Yes, because those beta schlubs were not men the women loved. They were men whom the women tolerated (often resentfully) in exchange for financial or social gain.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

I agree, women and men are different in this way.

But... please understand that the female equivalent of 'calling once a month when he wants sex' is a woman keeping a gallery of would-be lovers (orbiters) in the friend-zone and calling them only when they need a tire changed or a shelf built.

Yes, those shelf builders are all-too-eager to show up, but consider why; they allow themself to hope for something they aren't going to get, and women (often innocently) exploit this weakness. Similarly, women who throw themselves at the ultra-rare men who give them 'tingles and butterflies' (i.e. not the tire-changers or shelf-builders), are usually doing so out of hope for commitment they are not likely to receive.

I am not making a moral argument here. I'm saying that male and female mating strategies are often antithetical.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

Yes! Wanting a virgin while not being a virgin may seem like hypocrisy to women (who receive approaches rather than making them), but the reality is that a man (who *must* approach to find anything) is statistically more likely to find a virgin by sleeping around than by 'saving himself.'

And I almost guarantee the woman a male virgin marries will not be a virgin. Unless he marries her very young, she will more likely be a 304 looking for trad-con naive enough to let himself become her retirement plan.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@Christs_Scourge @RealPaulElam @taylorburrowes I agree.

[Devan Ironside @devanironside]

@FringeViews I think you are right. It was a bifurcation point.