@schiz04renic That happened to me. In my case I told Tom what not to do as it would trigger me into a specific reaction. He did everything I asked him not to do and triggered the exact reaction as described and called me crazy and the bad guy. It gets worse from there
@schiz04renic That happened to me. In my case I told Tom what not to do as it would trigger me into a specific reaction. He did everything I asked him not to do and triggered the exact reaction as described and called me crazy and the bad guy. It gets worse from there
We live in some kind of a backwards society where you donβt get fucked with for being a bad person, you get fucked with for being a good person. Itβs really weird
EMOTIONS YOU MUST NOT SHOW TO A NARCISSIST
- Fear: they feed on it.
- Desperation: it makes you their puppet.
- Hurt: it validates their power.
- Jealousy: it's their favorite game.
- Helplessness: it invites domination.
- Over-Explaining: it signals weakness.
- Rage: they'll flip it and blame you.
- Attachment: they weaponize it.
The safest emotions to show a narcissist?
Calm. Neutrality. Unbothered energy.