Ayomide Alphonsus Ogunfolaji

Computer Networker (CCNA & DevNet) | Crypto Enthusiast 📈📉| Leatherworker & Shoemaker👞 | Chess Player♟️ | Bibliophile📚| BSc. CSC in view | Nonconformist ✊🏿

[random guy on the internet @KharayKrayKray]

Pause your emotions for five minutes and read this from a logical point of view… please.

Before I get into it, I’d like to affirm that all rapists, regardless of gender, deserve the full extent of the law if proven guilty. In fact, a just God should not forgive rape. The only crime I can think of worse than rape is murder.

That being said, men are builders. Men are providers. Men are protectors. To share in any of these titles, I, as a man, have to work hard. I have to be better. I have to upgrade and upskill, and I 100% accept these responsibilities.

But why do I have to do absolutely nothing to receive the title of “potential rapist”?

This statement, and many like it, often aim to shift the discussion from “some men are horrible” to “you, as a man, are part of something horrible,” even though I have never, not once in my life, raped anybody or even conceived thoughts of such an atrocity.

No matter how emotionally resilient or stoic or male feminists or whatever you claim to be, this triggers your sense of being misjudged.

All men are not rapists and all rapists are not men. It is a simple expression..

The usual response is: “Why does it trigger you if you know you’re not a rapist?” or “Why aren’t you lending your voice to call all men out?” Usually something along those lines.

It’s simple. The statement, and the movement around it, violates the integrity of my own self identity. They create cognitive dissonance… a clash between who I know myself to be and how I am being portrayed.

I understand that many women speak from a place of pain, fear, or past trauma. I’ve seen this firsthand, which is why I often avoid engaging in these conversations with those who have been directly affected when they go off.

I recognize that, in many cases, their statements are not meant literally, but as an expression of lived experience. Many men usually choose to not reply or engage and some feel the need to counter making it seem like we do not care.

Still, we care… and that is precisely why it affects us. Those who actually commit these crimes are unlikely to be influenced by generalized accusatory statements.

Do you think the men who committed those atrocities are concerned with our bickering? The worthless POS plans to commit the same crime again sometime soon at the next festival.

The only men who are affected are those who know they are not perpetrators, yet feel unfairly grouped as such.

Framing the issue this way can also creates a dilemma: to support the movement, one generalizes or assigns guilt to other men who, like oneself, have done nothing wrong. I should not have to risk undermining the integrity of individuals I resonate with and know do not deserve such labels.

We should be able to call out members within a group firmly and without compromise. And we can do it without assigning that behavior to every member of the group.

Addressing a serious issue of this caliber does not require unfair generalization if your aim is to quell the fire. This statement only fans the flame.

[Bolaji Olatinwo @olasb24]

UPDATE: To Every Nigerian Who Stood With Me😁😁

I woke up overwhelmed,
Thousands of comments.
Countless reposts.

Strangers praying for me.
Lawyers offering advice.
Young Nigerians sharing similar stories.

I am deeply grateful.

You didn’t ignore me.
You amplified me.
You stood by me.

Please don’t abandon me until the very end of this journey.

May God bless everyone who lent their voice to mine. 🙏🏽

Now, to be clear:

At no point did I call Kuda thieves.@joinkuda @kudahelp_ng
At no point did I accuse anyone of stealing.

All I have asked for is justice.
And clarity.

₦1,450,000 of my legitimate earnings was first frozen due to a court order over an alleged “fraudulent inflow.

My name was not on the court document.

Later, the funds disappeared from my account entirely.

No transaction trail.
No clear explanation.
No resolution.

Frommy post, I have discovered that many Nigerian youths are facing similar situations funds locked for months or years with no clear pathway to recovery.

This is bigger than just me.

Dear Kuda,

I am your customer.

If you received a court order to freeze my account, I understand compliance obligations.

But as your customer:
Did you follow up?
Did you verify?
Did you advocate?
Did you investigate beyond simply placing a lien?

Yesterday, I was contacted and asked to take down my post.

But what I expected was:
A solution.
A timeline.
A clear explanation of how I can recover my money.

I am not trying to tarnish your brand.

I am asking you to stand up for your customer.

Let Nigerians see that you are actively working toward resolving this.

Let this not be another silent case.

God bless you all.

If this can happen to me, it can happen to anyone. Please retweet, please retweet, please retweet 🙏🙏🙏

@cenbank @fccpcnigeria @SaharaReporters @PremiumTimesng @vdmempire @officialEFCC

[Bolaji Olatinwo @olasb24]

How ₦1,450,000 of my hard-earned money disappeared from my Kuda account @joinkuda @kudahelp_ng and nobody is helping.

I am a recent graduate of the University of Ibadan.
An AgroPreneur.
Recognized as one of the most outstanding student AgroPreneurs in 2024 by NAAS South-West.

I built my businesses legitimately; selling men’s fashion items, sneakers, and supplying day-old chicks across Nigeria.

I don’t smoke.
I don’t drink.
I don’t do fraud.

I hustle. Legitimately.

On April 13, 2025, I received an email from Kuda Bank stating that a lien had been placed on my account due to a “fraudulent inflow.”

Fraudulent?

I was shocked.

The money in question ₦2,450,000 came from a transaction on Bybit (a crypto trading platform where I had saved and sold assets) but met #1,450,000 in my Kuda @kudahelp_ng @joinkuda

The buyers paid me.
I had receipts.
I had transaction evidence.
I released my assets only after confirming payment.

Yet my account was frozen.

When I contacted Kuda @joinkuda , I was told there was a court order linked to something called “Pyramid Bank” , a name I have NEVER heard of in my life.

It’s Nigeria, you people will say snake swallows money! How did money get from the bank in the first place?!

The payments I received were from Moniepoint accounts. I was only a second beneficiary.

Still, my money was locked.

I was told to get a lawyer.

The first lawyer asked for a percentage of the ₦1.45M immediately, money I did not even have access to.

At that time, I had just resumed my final year in school.
I had already lost my father after secondary school.
I lost my mother in 300 level.

I had no parents to run to.
Only myself and my brothers.

So I focused on graduating.

Then one day, during my semester exams, I checked my account.

The ₦1,450,000 was gone.

Not on hold.
Not pending.
Gone.

No transaction history.
No reversal trail.

Just gone.

I contacted Kuda again.@kudahelp_ng @kudabusiness
They said receipts were not enough.
They said I should get a court order.

How does a victim get a court order to recover his own legitimate earnings?

Another lawyer later told me quietly:

“Forget the money. Many people are in court already. No progress.”

So this is Nigeria?

Where criminals walk free…
But innocent youths lose their hard-earned money?

Where a young entrepreneur can trade legitimately, provide evidence, and still be punished?

I reported to the Central Bank of Nigeria on October 5, 2025.

No response.

I have:
– All receipts
– All emails
– The alleged court order copy
– Evidence of Bybit transaction
– Payment confirmations

I am not asking for sympathy.

I am asking for justice.

₦1,450,000 is not small money.
It represents sweat.
Late nights.
Legitimate hustle.

Nigeria should protect its honest youths ,not exhaust them.

I am calling on:
Kuda Bank @kudahelp_ng @kudabusiness @joinkuda
Central Bank of Nigeria @cenbank
Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Commission @fccpcnigeria
@SaharaReporters @PremiumTimesng

Please investigate this.

Return my money.

Let Nigeria be a country where the innocent do not suffer for crimes they did not commit.

If you believe in fairness, please retweet, please retweet, please retweet 🙏🙏🙏

[NFCS FUNAAB @NFCSFUNAAB01]

The Nigeria Federation of Catholic Students (NFCS FUNAAB CHAPTER) during their excursion to the Badagry slave trade museum and the Sultan Beach on the 2nd and 3rd of February 2026.

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[Ayomide Alphonsus Ogunfolaji @dhe_great]

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What really stood out for me was the efficiency in verifying and updating points, as soon as you complete a task, your progress reflects in real time. Just link your socials, engage with the tasks, and watch your points update instantly.

I saw my first 10 points the moment I logged in. After verifying my GitHub, I earned another 20 points immediately. My aim is to verify more apps and move up in rank on the leaderboard.
If you want a smooth platforms with instant and accurate feedback you should use myrad platforms .
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[Ayomide Alphonsus Ogunfolaji @dhe_great]

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[MORAKINLOMO✨ @Marcus25JR]

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[Ayomide Alphonsus Ogunfolaji @dhe_great]

This level of trust or nothing >>>>> 🥹

[Ayomide Alphonsus Ogunfolaji @dhe_great]

Was briefly in my occasional picture-taking spirit...😁

[Ayomide Alphonsus Ogunfolaji @dhe_great]

Happy birthday Presido @Ayomide544721!🥳🥳🥳

[NACOS FUNAAB @funaabnacos]

On behalf of all NACOSITE, we want to wish the PRESIDENT, Comr. Amoniyan Ayomide a fantastic birthday!

May her day be filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable
memories.

We love you 😘

Team LUXORIA led by Comr. Amoniyan Ayomide

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[Ayomide Alphonsus Ogunfolaji @dhe_great]

I'm gonna be so handsome in old age😌😎

#OldSchoolSunday
#YouthWeek
#CyonAbeokutaDiocese

[THE ODD THINKERS @the_oddmind]

The challenges facing Nigerian businesses is a societal factor. Current statistics about business viability in Nigeria are grim.

I have been an entrepreneur for a greater number of my adult years.
I got an FG grant immediately after my NYSC to start a fish farm.
The problem started with:
1-The thieving staff
2-Hostile community
3- Multiple government fees ( more than 10 bodies)
4-Dubious offtakers
It got so bad that the best option was to shut down after putting in sweat and blood.

My staff were selling fishes to all nearby pepper soup joints even before the fishes reached maturity.
A mega pond with stock of 10,000 fishes reduced to merely 800 at maturity.

They steal fuel, steal feed to sell to other farms etc.

I ventured into food grocery chain where we supply civil servants and get payment automatically deducted from source by month end.

It was a multi-million naira investment but guess what, the manager went behind to cleverly open another bank account stealing all our company's dovuments and provided that account after few months of our success.

The monthly collection we expected for that month was around N48m and all was diverted.
He ran away. Guess what ? He is a stunch church man.

We currently run a big school British school. The first accountant after discovering we blocked most loopholes went to meet some parents that the school will be increasing school fees by next session. Any parents who pays for a full session gets a discount of 50%. He gave them an account and provided forged receipts so identical it will be hard to tell the difference from the real receipts.
Collected about N39m and ran away till EFCC arrested him.

This is a single harrowing experience which I have seen many promising and dedicated Nigerians come in to invest in but are destroyed.

A friend sold all his companies after the battling series of staff theft and bribes demands from government agencies and traveled to Australia.

Another family friend relocated to Nigeria from UK after years of work.

Old man and his wife started a big cold room business- The staff stole all. Nepa finished them all and fuel and solar makes the business unprofitable for them.

They bought houses for rentals and agents didn't remit promptly.

A friend called from NYC to start a factory in Nigeria. We bought land at N125m. Guess what, omo onile war started after we paid. Another faction of the family requested we pay another sum.

My guy did not even bother to start the factory again. We are still battling on collecting our money.

The pain most of these business owners go through is unfathomable.

We people come to me for business ideas. I simply tell them GO AND PUT YOUR MONEY IN TREASURY BILL.
Since we all choose to be mad as a society. MORE FACTORIES ARE CLOSING DOWN, MORE SCHOOL ARE CHURNING OUT GRADUATES AND MORE CHURCHES AND MOSQUES ARE BEING BUILT FOR GRADUATES TO PRAY FOR NON EXISTING JOB.

Please follow @the_oddmind

[ChrisBest Oguguo @chrisoguguoo]

I was just thinking again about what @sam_adeyemi talks about here and it's crazy how true it is

Ordinary Nigerians are quick to blame the government for every ill in our society and while there's some truth in there, the real problem is what I call symbiotic dysfunction

Let me explain

Your leaders come from the same society, and the society in turn reflects, tolerates, and even rewards the same failings it complains about in its leaders

The idea of projection in psychology suggests that individuals tend to attribute their own (lack of) qualities onto others, thereby making them more likely to support and reward people who think and act like them

The same applies to how we interact with any kind of leadership because leadership is a mirror of the society that produces it

Leaders don't drop from the sky, they emerge from the same cultural, moral, and social fabric as everyone else

If the general public have normalised corruption, immediate personal gratification, and clan benefit over long-term institutional and societal good, why do you think the leadership would be any different?

In functioning societies, the people demand and enforce accountability because they genuinely value collective progress

In Nigeria, you only criticise leaders when it's not you and your clan benefitting

Given small power, you'll see the true nature of the average Nigerian — see how fuel attendants behave during fuel scarcity. They see power as an opportunity to extract, and not to serve

It is why I insist that we're not ready as a people for the kind of leadership we talk about

What the people are, the leaders become. Rotten roots bear rotten fruits!

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[MONARCH°♠️💷 @Imu____sama]

@Jkendo_ @dqanl @OluyomiOjo If they change the whole cabinet of politicians today and replace all of em with the average Nigerian citizens, nothing will change because a politician is the average Nigerian with money and influence. Nobody means well for his neighbor. I think that is spiritual.

[Ojo Oyinkansola @OjoOyinkan6666]

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[FUNAAB Nigeria @FUNAABNigeria]

FUNAABSU Judicial Council Demonstrates University's Commitment to Social Responsibility

… Secures Bail for Inmate, Donates Relief Items

By Olaoye Oyewole

Reinforcing the Federal University of Agriculture, Abeokuta's (FUNAAB) strong commitment to social responsibility and community engagement, the 8th Student Union Judicial Council, under the leadership of the Honourable Chief Judge, Hon. Justice Owolabi Damilare, facilitated the bail of an inmate at the Ibara Correctional Centre on May 16, 2025.

The beneficiary, Mr. Wasiu Adegbola, had been sentenced to Three Months imprisonment but remained in custody for three weeks due to his inability to pay a fine of ₦60,000. As part of its “Judiciary 2025 Outreach,” the Judicial Council intervened by settling the fine and securing his release.

Speaking during the exercise, Hon. Justice Owolabi Damilare explained that the outreach aligned with the Council's mission to provide support to underserved members of the society, particularly inmates, within the limits of available resources. He urged the freed inmate to embrace the opportunity for a fresh start and make meaningful changes in his life, reiterating the Council's belief in his potential for transformation.

In his remarks, the Deputy Controller of the Ibara Correctional Centre, DCC Sanni Ojo, expressed gratitude to the University and the Student Union Judicial Council for the noble gesture. He commended the students for their unexpected yet impactful intervention and encouraged them to remain shining examples of youth-driven service and generosity. DCC Ojo also advised the released inmate to reform himself and lead a life of integrity.

The outreach was rounded off with the donation of food items, clothing, and religious books to the inmates, further reflecting the University's vision of making a positive impact in the society.

#SDG3 #SDG16

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