There's an old adage that says: "A man who doesn't have friends will sleep with his mother."
Young men, if you're not yet married, let his tears be your masterclass.
Here is the harsh truth you need to internalize:
1. You Need a Circle of Solid Friends. Your good friends would have slapped you before you finish talking.
2. Stop Funding a Long Distance Illusion. Especially where you are at disadvantage financially. Already distance changes people, this one then funded it. Sigh!
3. Never "Let it Slide" When Your Boundaries Are Crossed. That flat mate matter... you must never keep the peace especially as a man. Once the respect of a woman is gone, the relationship is over.
4. Gratitude Does Not Equal Desire. This is for those buying gifts and expecting love or desire. She is just an opportunist milking a cash cow. Stop the funding and watch the illusion shatter.
Build your circle of brothers. Listen to their warnings. Protect your resources, guard your boundaries, and never ever, ever... ever... ignore the red flags that are staring you right in the face.
This man committed all the sins.
This man is your scapegoat.
This man is your lesson for the new generation.
Video editing is something I must learn before I die, I’m in total awe of what @dicethemann has done with himself through it, watching him grow motivates me and I believe I can start too.
just need to declutter my calendar and delegate everything so I have time for it