Just stop! This is my message for those posting comments blaming Sandra Birchmore for other sexual encounters besides Matthew Farwell. Someone commented on a Facebook post recently about Sandra Birchmore: “She’s no angel! What was done to her was wrong, but she knew what she was doing as she got older.”
That statement and others like it reflect a profound misunderstanding of grooming and childhood sexual exploitation.
As I explained on @JusticeServedTV Sandra's sexual encounters with other men cannot be separated from the grooming that began when she was just 12 years old.
Grooming is not simply about obtaining sex from a child. It is about systematically dismantling that child's understanding of love, trust, boundaries, and relationships.
Farwell exploited Sandra's vulnerabilities and her admiration for police officers. Through years of relentless manipulation, he conditioned her to associate sexual availability with affection, acceptance, and approval.
This is the reason groomers like Farwell can continue to sexually exploit victims into adulthood and leave them vulnerable to exploitation by others. That conditioning did not disappear when Sandra turned 18.
A birthday does not erase years of psychological manipulation.
What some characterize as promiscuity, actually reflects the lasting consequences of childhood sexual exploitation. Sandra's adult behavior must be understood in the context of what was done to her as a child.
As a Juvenile Court judge for more than two decades, I saw firsthand how grooming and sexual trauma can distort a young person's understanding of relationships and personal boundaries.
Stop judging and blaming Sandra for behaviors shaped by years of grooming that distorted her understanding of personal boundaries and left her vulnerable to continued sexual exploitation. Just stop.
There are people promoting the compromised Sandra Birchmore death investigation to help fundraise for the McCabe, Albert, and Higgins lawsuit against Karen Read and Aidan Kearney.
Their YouTube program and Patreon donations, memberships and Google adsense goes to this fund - per GiveSendGo records.
They are using Sandra's name to help pay for the harrassment of other content creators who spoke out against the corruption within Norfolk County.
Every engagement helps fund their bullshit. Do not engage. Do not view. Do not troll them. Block them and let them scream into the void.
Sandra Birchmore's name, nor photos, should NEVER be affiliated with such garbage.
Folks should read this entire document.
If you've been following the Sandra Birchmore and Matthew Farwell trial, things will start to make a lot more sense now.
https://t.co/edxH06o9nI
If you're over 50, I think we're asking the wrong question about AI.
The question isn't:
"How do I compete with a 25-year-old who understands AI?"
Ask:
"What can I now do with AI that I couldn't do with 30 years of experience alone?"
Those are completely different questions.
The first begins with fear.
The second begins with possibility.
Your experience hasn't disappeared.
AI has simply changed what you can do with it.
That feels much more interesting to me.
@jeffbullas AI doesn't erase decades of experience. It multiplies it. The opportunity isn't competing on speed. It's using AI to amplify the depth you already have. That's a very different starting point, and honestly a pretty exciting one.
Helluva show this morning. And it wouldn’t have been possible without the amazing contributions from @_exhibitali
As she can attest, this took several days to put together and I couldn’t have done it without her.
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I ran a marathon once and someone gave me the advice to walk for 7 seconds at every water station. It seemed counterintuitive, to slow down in order to be able to speed up. But it worked.
And just like in that marathon, I made the decision that I need to take a step back from my involvement in the Shubert show in order to be able to continue the work I’ve been doing that afforded me that opportunity in the first place. My child is my one and only priority and I don’t have the time or mental energy to devote to both preparing the documents necessary to comply with this subpoena and creating the show you all deserve. That might not make sense to everyone and I understand that.
I will add - I don’t see this as a first amendment issue. The government is not silencing me. I think the first step in defending the first amendment is making clear what that protection is, what it isn’t, and why it is so valuable to our freedom as Americans.