having a man who is dominant but soft when it comes to u is TOP TIER. Like he's masculine but literally worships the ground u walk on. He gets things done without asking, reassures u randomly, clingy & obsessed with u, talks to u in a gentle tone & brings out ur softest version
โwhen i choose to see the good side of things, i'm not being naive. it is strategic and necessary. it's how I've learned to survive through everythingโ
Human approval is unstable. Someone may praise you today and criticize you tomorrow, so it's wiser to anchor your life in deeper principles than in other people's opinions.