I'm not perfect o but I've always been a standup guy. I've always been a provider since I was 15. Family, siblings, friends. Since 15. I don't need to learn provider energy.
I go out of my way to make everyone around me happy. As long as I'm around you, you go dey happy. Happy and satisfied.
But Nigerian men are telling me that:
Should a time come when I decide to get married, my happiness will depend solely on the happiness of my wife as per "happy wife, happy life".
That I shouldn't expect my wife to ever go out of her way to make me happy. To be happy, I have to perform above and beyond to make her happy, then she can make me happy. That if I don't conform to this mindset early enough, " I'm not ready".
That, this is my cross - and the more silently I endure, which keeps her happy means a happy home. When we're in that situation for decades, it is a happy marriage. 😂
God will punish Nigeria men o. GOD WILL PUNISH NIGERIAN MEN.
I own just 2 pair of shoes.
They are durable and just what I need. Anytime my woman buys me a new pair, I give them out. She no longer buys anymore. Same with watches (I was telling N6 the other day). I give them all out. Apart from Apple Watch, you will never see me wear an expensive watch.
I just buy exactly what I need. Come to my house, ransack everywhere it’s the same pair of shoes. Check any picture I’ve taken it’s either of the shoes
Any country I visit in the World, it’s just one suitcase with few shirts and same pair of shoes. Always one suitcase. Never above one suitcase.
That’s how to live a disciplined, frugal life.
Oliseh was never even better than yamal with or without the euros or world cup, the debate was just forced, you cant watch both and conclude oliseh is better, if you doubt me, ask yourself why is yamal being tripple marked and oliseh isnt