Diana Loach

Teaching families Relationship, not religion - that is my passion.

[Diana Loach @dloach]

@JoshuaBarzon Mark- the second half of Chapter 4…a continuation of our series.

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@NancyDeMoss May you and the family know the very real presence of God as Comforter in these coming days. I had the honour of walking my 96 yr old dad home just 10 short weeks ago. Peace.

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@BethMooreLPM I have stepped out of leadership in seasons when my heart and spirit were not fit to lead.
I think it’s an integrity thing, as you said. God honours that and lets you heal, reconcile with Him and then restores…

[The Biblical Man @Biblicalman]

Joseph of Arimathea took down a corpse.

Hands still sticky with blood.

Skin already cold.

Touched death. Held it. Wrapped it.

Became ceremonially unclean for Passover.

For a dead man.

Here's what most Christians miss about the burial of Jesus:

Joseph was a wealthy man. A member of the Sanhedrin. A respected Jew.

And Passover was 3 hours away.

The holiest day of the year.

But he climbed Golgotha anyway.

Jewish law was clear:

Touch a dead body = unclean for 7 days.

Can't worship. Can't celebrate. Can't enter the temple.

Joseph knew this.

He'd spent his entire life following these laws.

But Jesus was still hanging on that cross.

Picture it:

The crowds are gone. The soldiers drunk. The women weeping.

Joseph approaches Pilate—the man who just murdered his Lord—and asks permission.

"Can I have the body?"

Pilate grants it.

Now Joseph has to actually DO it.

He walks to Golgotha.

Blood-soaked dirt. The smell of death. Three crosses against the sky.

Jesus in the middle.

Still.

Finally still.

Joseph climbs the ladder.

Grabs the first nail.

Pulls.

Feel the weight of that moment.

God's body in your arms.

The blood isn't dry yet.

It stains his expensive robes.

His hands.

Under his fingernails.

He can taste the iron in the air.

This is what obedience looks like.

Messy. Expensive. Permanent.

Nicodemus shows up.

Another secret disciple. Another Sanhedrin member.

He brings 75 pounds of myrrh and aloes.

That's about $150,000 worth of burial spices in today's money.

Two wealthy men. Two cowards until now.

Finally brave when it's already too late.

They work fast.

Sabbath is coming. They have maybe 3 hours.

Wrap the body. Pour the spices. Seal the tomb.

The sun is setting.

Joseph is now officially unclean.

Can't celebrate Passover tomorrow.

Can't enter the temple for a week.

Think about what he just gave up:

His ceremonial purity.

His Passover celebration.

His reputation (everyone saw him bury a "blasphemer").

His position (the Sanhedrin won't forget this).

His safety (Romans might come for disciples next).

All for a dead man.

But here's what most Christians miss:

Joseph didn't do this expecting resurrection.

He did it expecting NOTHING.

Jesus was dead. Gone. Finished.

This wasn't faith in resurrection.

This was love for a corpse.

That's the part that wrecks me.

Joseph touched death—literally—knowing it meant giving up everything.

Not because Jesus promised him anything.

But because Jesus deserved honor even in death.

Modern Christianity wants clean obedience.

Safe obedience.

Obedience that doesn't cost you Passover.

But Joseph shows us something different:

True discipleship gets your hands dirty.

You want to follow Jesus?

Then stop avoiding the messy parts.

Stop waiting for clean opportunities.

Stop demanding that obedience be convenient.

Joseph climbed Golgotha when everyone else went home.

He wrapped a corpse when he could've stayed clean.

He missed the holiest day of his life to honor a dead "criminal."

He risked everything when there was no visible reward.

That's not religion.

That's worship.

The twist?

Three days later, that tomb was empty.

Joseph gave his grave to Jesus.

Jesus left it empty.

Forever.

Joseph thought he was burying God.

He was actually setting the stage for resurrection.

Your messy obedience?

God's using it too.

Even when you can't see it.

So here's the question:

What are you avoiding because it's too messy?

What obedience are you postponing because it's inconvenient?

What grave are you unwilling to give?

Joseph of Arimathea held death in his arms.

Got blood on his hands.

Missed Passover.

Lost his reputation.

And earned his name in all four Gospels.

Religion says "stay clean."

Discipleship says "get dirty."

Joseph chose discipleship.

What are you choosing?

—TBM

[Diana Loach @dloach]

@edstetzer Our friend served a congregation in the Bahamas that was established before the concept of the rapture…

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@HerbsandDirt Hit her with a trespass…

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@BethMooreLPM My relationship with Jesus. My husband, 50+ kiddos at our VBS, the best boss and work family and cooler temps!

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@YourMorning tell Lyndsey she’s describing a Concord grape…my favourite.

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@GailVazOxlade Because we have people in our lives we want to see, live within an hour of the border. With Nexus we have had no trouble, and it’s not America that’s the issue…

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@sola_chad Coffee addiction. It’s almost a badge of honour to need a cup or 5 on any given morning.

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@crystalandqueue @pickleballfan24 @jessibridges Part of the consulting team are Mormon, and some of Jesus’ statements are from their book. No thanks, it may draw them to Scripture, but they won’t find everything they are watching there.

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@ClairedeLuned @jessibridges I’d rather people read Jesus calling than do yoga. I find that once people realize they are engaging in Eastern worship poses…their view changes.

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@edstetzer May you know the very real presence of God as Comforter during these coming days.

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@philipnation Richard Foster’s Prayer

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@JayMallow3 I agree, never would the shepherd us the rod to hit his flock. Always, it was used to defend and direct them, keep them safe and not harmed.

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@philipnation @passionatelyhis

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@passionatelyhis @CWtheology YOUR first Christmas?…are we not retiring together? 😘

[Nancy Pearcey @NancyRPearcey]

How do Christian parents succeed in passing on their religious convictions to their children?

A 35-year longitudinal study asked that question. And it found two things that were surprising.

One, fathers matter more than mothers. If the father is committed to his faith, the children are more likely to follow him. In short, fathers wield influence, whether they want to or not.

Of course, mothers also have influence, but not as much. My female students say that’s not fair.  And I say, I’m sorry, it’s a fact.

The second finding was that, to have that influence, the father has to have a warm, loving relationship with the child.  

It doesn't matter if he was a leader in the community, a pillar of the church, a moral exemplar.  If he is perceived as cold and distant, his children will not follow him.

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