Our spiritual enemy wants us to assume the WORST about others. Our Heavenly Father wants us to believe the BEST about others. "Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love." Ephesians 4:2
Being a parent is not a passive thing. It is an active thing. Be involved, spend time with them, train them, love them, teach them, discipline them, teach them to fear and Love God and see what happens ! We are the ones that should be influencing the future of this country.