@halothanegrl@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing is it not clear that regardless of the words definition i was not referring to mina? i figured it'd be obvious because people don't just say something and add the listener's gender afterwards. if it wasn't obvious then that's my bad.
@prismaticwhore@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing trans women ends up directed towards trans men as well, because of the inevitability of someone attempting to argue that one of us has it worse causing each community to hold more and more animosity towards the other as a whole.
@prismaticwhore@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing there are types of suffering that can be considered objectively worse, and i won't deny that. we are treated differently but there are intersections between how we're treated, too. we suffer differently but we both suffer, and a lot of the times the hatred you see directed toward
@prismaticwhore@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing please don't be condescending. obviously there is a difference in how we're treated, though i think attempting to argue about who has it 'worse' is pointless. my personal views had no impact on me saying you're wishing suffering; i based it upon your views.
@prismaticwhore@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing -to upset me. that is infighting. pointing out trans-misogyny and having discussions about it is not infighting, and i never said it was.
@prismaticwhore@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing also, the "infighting" i was referring to was not towards people genuinely attempting to explain things and have a proper discussion. it was specifically towards mina, who went out of her way to degrade me for using pronouns i'm comfortable with, and was deliberately attempting-
@prismaticwhore@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing no, i assumed you were also targeting me because you were replying to me? if you weren't targeting me, then again, my bad, but i don't think it was unreasonable for me to assume you were.
@prismaticwhore@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing yes, the victim mentality i have, with absolutely zero basis. you did not wish for any suffering upon anyone, totally! that's my bad!
@prismaticwhore@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing "you" was meant collectively. you, presumably, agree with mina, and she had used the term theyfab. maybe you don't use it, in which case i apologize, but it was a reasonable conclusion in my eyes
do not get involved in trans discourse on twitter this shit is exhausting. had a couple of people willing to genuinely talk and explain but 90% of the time i'm over here getting called a birthday boy and a theyfab and being accused of not transitioning
@prismaticwhore@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing im not going to be inclined to listen to you when youre insisting on insulting me and wishing for my suffering rather than trying to have a genuine discussion, sorry.
@prismaticwhore@MinaFog_@cinnamonmaxxing this is why a lot of people don't listen, you use terms like birthday boy and theyfab whenever someone disagrees with you and act like it cant possibly be a form of transphobia. notice how I was genuinely willing to listen when someone refrained from insults and actually talked?
@SydneyDaDragon if anything this disproves what they're trying to say. Trans men are not "more accepted" because they're seen as sexually desirable, they're seen as sexually desirable because a lot of people see us as women and see women as sex objects