Single, because a man showed me that no matter how much of a homebody, sensible, pretty, hardworking, affectionate, accommodating, and independent I was... It was never enough for him
Babe, remember:
The victim of narcissistic abuse is often the one who’s visibly breaking down. They’re the one crying, reacting, and looking “crazy” because they’ve been pushed to their emotional limit.
Meanwhile, the abuser stays calm and composed, telling everyone, “See? Look how crazy they are.”
It’s strange how, in this generation, when victims finally speak about how they were hurt, they’re often labeled as “toxic” or “dramatic”. Weren’t we the same people encouraging them to find their voice?
The irony is that when they stay quiet, they’re told to speak up. But when they finally do, they’re criticized for being inappropriate, pretentious, or simply told they should have kept it to themselves.
A narcissist doesn’t love, they manipulate.
They don’t want healing, just a safe place to run when things go wrong.
They use their past as an excuse, demand pity, and keep repeating the same toxic patterns.
You can give them everything and they’ll still have a backup plan ready.
They chase attention for power and are never satisfied.
Eventually they’ll drain you dry… then walk away like you never mattered.
I’m so haunted by male evil. Everyday I think about that video of the US soldier bragging about pimping out a 15 y.o. Afghan girl for $50, how relaxed he was when he said they made 500 bucks before she hung herself.
Everybody wants to be in a relationship for years but everybody is not ready for the the bad days, the crying, arguments, communication going wrong. Relationships aren’t fairytales & it’s not easy. If you love each other, you have to stay solid through it all and make it work.
The deepest form of heartbreak
isn’t being unloved. It’s realizing
you kept pouring your heart into
someone who only loved the
parts of you that benefited them.
Almost every single day I get online, there’s a story about a white man killing his entire family. There’s an obvious epidemic, yet this demographic is not labeled as violent. If this were a Muslim or a Black man, it would be a different story.