As a man, after you cross 30, sit down and study the patterns in your family. Look at what distracted, delayed, or derailed the men before you. Look at what destroyed them. Your father, his brothers, your uncles, older cousins etc... is it booze, is it gambling, is it women, is it recklessly siring everywhere, is it poor financial decisions, did they struggle with deep anger issues, domestic terrorists, did they practice witchcraft and all that.
Sit down and study those patterns,, then make intentional decisions to break those cycles. Remember some of these things are normal vices. Look for a recurring or deep recognizable patterns that are plastered all over men in your family. What brought them down. Do you see a pattern? Now that!
As Joshua Selman always says “As a man, number one thing that will help you live to your potential is knowing what can bring you down”. And you may not run away from your family tree. Refuse to be a victim of repeated patterns. Because they are there.
Whether you know it or not. Whether you recognize them or you don’t. They exist. They didn’t have the knowledge and resources we now have. Honor your progeny. Break out of them. Be made of Gold.
A child who wets the bed is not testing your authority.
He or she is asking for your leadership.
Do not become the source of your child's shame.
Become the source of their confidence.
One day, your child will remember how their father handled his or her weakness.
Not with anger or humiliation,
But with knowledge, patience, structure, and strength.
That is what fathers do.
They turn childhood struggles into lessons of dignity, resilience, and trust.
Yote tisa, ya kumi ni hii,
Doh za bibi yako ni kama pesa ya Zimbabwe,
We unajua iko, but haujawahi ona, hautawahi guza, unaskia iko, haujui ina nunua nini, na ni nani anapewa.
Kitu unaeza ona tu, ni WhatsApp status.
But, doh zako ni kama dola, kila mtu anataka.
Jipange.
Men,
"You have a small dick,"
This is a common insult from a damaged woman,
How did she conclude that your dick is small?
It is either, she has many body counts,
Or vagina is so wide,
Or, her clitoris died due to her addiction to masturbation.
#MasculinitySaturday
🚨 BREAKING: Massimiliano Allegri as new Napoli head coach, here we go! 🔵💣
Former AC Milan manager accepts all the conditions offered by Napoli and he will sign in shortly.
Deal done. 🫱🏻🫲🏼