Being financially prudent is fine
But you have to help people keep their dignity
If you won't pay for the upgrade,
Then let them get there on a different flight
And make sure they have a good reason to be around instead of hauling them around like emotional support animals
@theojframe Yes, exactly. If you're not careful there will be compensatory behaviour from you and to enjoy this thing, a man must be in himself satisfactory to the woman not his gestures and obviously gestures are nice but if he isn't satisfactory even the gestures won't fix the core issue.
I cannot fathom anything more banal than complaining about household chores & turning it into gender wars fodder. But then again I have an IQ above room temperature and don’t resent men so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.
Find your power, it’s yours to take and embody. Not egoically, but truthfully and spiritually. You are not what they taught you to be, and nor are you what you had to become to survive. You are the brilliant nature beneath all of that. It is your destiny to be yourself. Now rise.
A woman's past matters when it comes to marriage. Feminism is shaming good men for caring about a woman’s past, and it declares men as insecure for caring about it. Men only realise how much the past matters after having childern.
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Use me .
And btw abokis no dy exploit, rate might just be 3 or 5 naira difference, max, but they’ll never try to scam you. the first time I used my current aboki , we were texting on watsapp, & he sent me $10k, and I sent him naira mins after I confirmed the money.
The genius you express in the work you do is a glimpse of God. So do not burden yourself with replicating your success. Just stay studious and keep showing up.
God is the genius and you are just a vessel. ❤️
Ask God to restore your appetite for life. Your ideas. Your energy. Your curiosity. Your confidence. Your hope for the future. Sometimes you don't need a completely new life. You need to reconnect with the parts of yourself you stopped nurturing.
@codedbruhh One thing that makes a lot of guys naive is a refusal to look at incentive structures, you can turn a girl on and she desires you but without looking at incentive structures you'd never see the fuller picture