On my post of yesterday evening, all I was saying is one simple thing:
If you sleep with a woman who is not your wife or your girlfriend, give her money.
Directly or indirectly.
Prostitute or not.
Then shut up about it and respect her privacy.
No long grammar.
No โwe are just friends.โ
No pretending it was pure love and vibes.
Why?
Because that sex is not free. She gave you access to her body. In return, you give her something that has value.
You could say that you also gave her access to yuur body, but that's just semantics. Reality is different.
Money is the clearest way to do that without confusing anybody. When you donโt give anything, many women (not all, but enough) start calculating.
They start expecting calls, attention, status, or more. Some even get bitter later and talk.
The money closes that gap early. It makes the arrangement clear: this is what it is. No emotional debt hanging over your head.
Even if she says โI donโt want moneyโ or โit was from my heart,โ still find a way to give her something. Buy something useful, send money for her transport or data, whatever.
The point is to remove the โI did it for freeโ story from her mind. Because later, if things go sour, free sex is what some people use to blackmail or drag your name.
Money + privacy reduces that risk.
Also, many men think they are smart by sleeping around without spending. In reality, they are the ones who end up stressed.
She starts acting like your girlfriend without the title, or she feels used and starts drama.
The ones who give small money and move clean usually have less headache.
They donโt owe explanations. They donโt keep checking if she is angry. The transaction is finished.
I also added โrespect her privacyโ for a reason.
Donโt go and tell your boys details.
Donโt screenshot.
Donโt use the fact that you paid as a weapon later. Once you give the money, leave it there.
That is how you protect yourself too.
In short: if she is not your woman, donโt take free sex from her and then act surprised when problems show.
Pay something, keep quiet, and move.
That is the practical way many men who have been in the game avoid unnecessary wahala.
End.
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