Swayvee

Tech prodigy || Everything Web3

[Swayvee @doubleswayy]

Personal growth first, then every other thing can follow..

Gm to 2025 new millionaires

[Mazi Nathan @rukky_nate]

As a person, you tend to look much better when you only have yourself to care about.

That’s why most villains in movies have insane aura. They always put themselves first.

A married man can look almost nothing like he did during his bachelors days.

Now, he has his wife and kids, along with every other expense, to contend with.

Having responsibilities leads to wear and tear. We all need to be a little bit selfish every now and then.

[Taiwo_junzi @taiwo_junzi]

Dating 101!!!

Sit back, read, think and adapt!!!

Before You Commit, Take Time to Know the Person!!!

Again, if you are a perceptive person, you will realize that no human being can pretend forever.

People can pretend for a while, they can hide their weaknesses, control their reactions, say the right things and show you only the parts of themselves they want you to see. But with enough time, life will eventually reveal them, pressure will reveal them, your disappointing them will reveal them, money will reveal them, success will reveal them, failing will reveal them. And sometimes, simply being around them for long enough will reveal who they truly are.

This is why you should never be in a hurry to commit your heart, your future or your life to someone you barely know.

Think about anything you truly understand. Whether it is a profession, skill, subject or even a hobby, deep knowledge usually comes from spending a great deal of time with it. You observe it, study it, ask questions, make mistakes, look deeper….

People are not different…

You cannot truly know a person simply because you have been talking to them for six months or because you are deeply attracted to them. You know someone by paying attention to them over time, you listen to what they say, but you also watch what they do. You observe how they treat people (immediately family members) who cannot benefit them, you watch how they behave when they are angry, disappointed, broke, successful, sick, stressed or ignored.

In love, you must do more than admire someone. You must study a person’s character and who they truly want to be.

Ask questions & difficult conversations about money, family, children, faith, responsibilities, friendships, boundaries, sex, ambition, failure, and expectations. Do not be afraid to confront uncomfortable subjects. Someone who looks perfect when everything is going well may look very different when life becomes difficult.

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Familiarity does not only breed contempt. Many times, familiarity gives you a deeper appreciation of a good person. The more reasonable you are as a human being, the more you understand that nobody is perfect. When you spend enough time with a good person, you begin to see their weaknesses alongside their strengths and you can decide whether those weaknesses are things you can genuinely live with.

So please, take your time before you commit to someone.

See them in different seasons of life…
See them when they have nothing…
See them when they have plenty…
See how they behave when they are in control and when they are not…
See how they treat people who cannot help them...
See how they respond when they are told “no”…
See how they view money…
See how they handle disappointment…
See how they speak about their former partners…
See how they treat their parents, siblings, friends, children, workers and strangers…

And just as importantly, allow them to see you finish too.

Do not pretend to be someone you are not just because you want someone to love you. Let them see you when you are struggling, when you are uncertain, when you are successful, when you are tired and when you are not at your best.

Some people are obsessed with control, some are selfish, some are driven more by money than love, some settle for you because of age, pressure, comfort, or financial security, some have mot healed from previous relationships, some carry trauma you can not deal with, some lack common.

That is why time, observation, honest conversations and self-awareness matter so much in love.

Take your time to know people!!!!

[B.Verse @B_Versee]

The Act of not giving a Fu*K is SKILL

Learn it... it's one skill that'll liberate you.

[ຸ @ChicagoBoy7G]

learn to give up on women. no be everything you suppose dey use force on

multiple women dey wey go give you exactly wetin you dey find without stress

[Joe Lampton @joelampton_]

Those chicks you get excited when they message you and can't wait 5 seconds until you reply

They're fun but it won't work

You need a girl that doesn't provoke no emotions when she's texting or calling, you can ignore her for hours, without even trying... then when you randomly check your phone it's a wall of text of her being jealous or checking up on you

Correct dynamic post sex, woman chases. You like her but you'd be fine without her as well.

[F.O.L.A @folaoftech]

Yoooh… even the Canva people don’t know this 😂

[Zherka @ZherkaOfficial]

If you want a woman to forget you, speak to her of poverty, of hunger, of orphanhood.

She will become your friend,
then, little by little, your sister,
and finally, she will disappear like the clouds.

In the end, a woman does not love the man she pities.

—Dostoevsky

[Seeking Ricks Valhalla @RicksSeeking690]

@marriedmn First rule in combat and marriage are the same
Assumptions are the mother fucker of all evil
My talent is of the older sect, that's my preference
Younger age doesn't mean capitulation instantly,also the upswing is the training factor
Nothing but luck

[Tech_baby @Tech_babby]

In the next 5yrs (maybe less) one person with multiple AI agents will handle full marketing, sales and product teams. I hope this shows you exact what skill to learn 👨🏾‍💻

[We$t @flygodT]

As a man I’m not fighting any major social construct, I’ll simply live on my terms.

[Pablo 🎱 @supuypweza]

I learned selfishness from women. They really know how to put themselves first. 10/ 10 would recommend.

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

Nothing beats the presence of a guy who is street smart, book smart, and spiritual.

Triple threat.

Very uncommon combination.

[lynk @lynk0x]

Keep going, because every step forward brings you one step closer to your dream.

[Shubhvani @shubhvanii]

If you are HIGH IQ man.

You should deal with most adults the way most adults deal with a child.

[Dan Go @CoachDanGo]

One of the greatest cheat codes in life is to never get offended. Train yourself to have thick skin. Don't take things personally. Let others disagree with you. Being easily offended means you're easily manipulated. If you value peace of mind, avoid getting offended.

[Midas Dey 4 Everybody @Society8sMidas]

Guys.

[T_G @T_Gofficial01]

Sure sign that a woman likes you, she’ll be scared to upset you. She’ll always try to control her behavior and emotions around you so you don’t get angry at her. If you’re happy, she’s happy. And if you’re sad, she’s sad. This is plainly the green flag of a woman attracted toward you.

[Incentivising @incentivising]

You must be expensive because humans do not value what they can receive for free. If you feel like people are taking you for granted, then step back. Focus on your stuff. If they need you, they'll come back to you. They'll ask, "Where did you go?" but you should not reply with your personal achievements. No, you should keep it brief. Explain that you spent some time working on your personal duties. Make it abundantly clear that you respect your own time. That's when they begin to shift their perception of you.

[Incentivising @incentivising]

Just remember: when the crowd orders you to go forward, you might want to pick the other lane. Masses are particularly susceptible to psychological fallacies, and once a group exceeds 4 people, a consensus forms. This consensus is not always right, yet it usually goes unquestioned. We call it conformity.