I want a love that feels soft. Someone who asks how my day went and actually wants to know. Forehead kisses. Holding hands everywhere. A gentle kiss on my hand at a red light. Someone who checks in on how I’m doing mentally. Playing with my hair for no reason. Those quiet moments where we look at each other and smile without saying anything. Random walks with nowhere important to go. I want the little things that make love feel safe.
casual dominance is actually the cutest thing 😭
- pulling me onto your lap
- gently holding my chin so I look at you
- keeping your hand on my back while we walk
- random forehead kisses
- playing with my hair and giving me head pats
- calling me yours like “my girl” or “my baby”
- casually kissing me in public
- holding my hand when we cross the street
- guiding me by the waist through a crowd
- telling me “come here” and pulling me closer
- fixing my clothes or hair without even asking
- that quiet “stay with me” energy >>>>>
I think I’m genuinely addicted to softness. Being cared for, sweet words, gentle touches, being babied a little, thoughtful gestures, quiet affection… I love relationships where tenderness isn’t something you have to earn. I just want a connection that feels safe enough to soften in.
What men call “foreplay” vs what women actually want as foreplay
Man’s version:
• Kissing hard and deep
• Hands under her clothes immediately
• Pushing her toward the bedroom
• Touching her everywhere to “get her ready”
Woman’s version: