If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
Colman Domingo reveals to ELLE, the secret to maintaining a relationship of over 21 years with his husband, Raul
“The thing that we keep investigating is how close friends we are. Not just partners, but friends—and I mean real friends. To have conversations where we say, ‘Hey, talk to me as your friend, not your partner. I want to hear about you and your evolution, what you need.’ It’s that question: What do you need? Where are you right now? Without judgment. I think that’s the staying power. With long-term relationships, people think you’ve got to give up something. I don’t think you do. I think you lean into something.”
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I tweet for me boo 😭 Twitter for the OGs was basically a diary. We wasn’t sitting around chasing engagement . You just had a thought, tweeted it, and kept scrolling. If somebody saw it, cool. If they didn’t, oh well 😂 Twitter originally wasn’t even about likes like that. It was just people broadcasting their random ass thoughts into the universe.