a girl on tiktok said “IN ORDER TO BE IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP YOU GOTTA TALK ABOUT THE THINGS THAT BOTHER YOU... EVEN IF YOU AGREE TO DISAGREE” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.
ppl don't realize that laziness can kill a relationship. you may think that just being there & staying loyal is enough but it's not. all those compliments, out of the blue kisses, quick phone calls to say l love you, date nights, and just because gifts. effort, it all matters
compliments about your appearance are nice, but when someone compliments you as a person, the way you think, your laugh, your personality, and how genuine your heart is, that hits differently.
losing respect for someone is always such a weird thing because you don’t hate the person, you just don’t feel the need to ever speak to them again or even think about them in the same way, you’re just done