you absolutely do not have to be ‘fully healed’ to be worthy of healthy relationships or friendships. there is no such thing as ‘fully healed’, anyway. as long as you are self-aware, inviting in calm and mature connections can be a relationally healing experience in itself.
i don't like dealing with people who make me feel like i'm losing my mind trying to get them to understand how i feel... i don't like having to keep shit bottled up inside... i don't like feeling like my feelings don't matter... i can't deal w anyone who makes me feel like that.