@CathyReisenwitz@KOyinloye people who are neurodivergent often lack the necessary social skills required for wit and charm and that shouldn't preclude them romance so yes if those are criteria that disqualify people I'd call that shallow
@mcmansionhell Come the fuck on. Nothing about this was narcissistic. Nothing. I'm so sick of people who are properly socialized treating people like this like they are freaks. this person does not deserve this treatment. Nothing they did deserves this treatment