We’ve got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can’t just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it’s going to get on by itself. You’ve got to keep watering it. You’ve got to really look after it and nurture it.”
~ John Lennon
Have you noticed---When you believe that only you are right, both poles remain charged and fixed.
For a moment, experiment with letting go or changing your position.
Loosen your hold and step aside, the "other position" or person is freed to change as well.