@KaroroMitchelle Yes, that has been a question on my mind and I believe to have a Spirit filled revelation.
Satan , left his wife being the closest to Job as a medium to have conversation ( as the provocation from her to Job to curse God and die came from satan through his wife) with Job.
When someone acts mean to you , they may be going through a war in their own heart and mind.
If you take on the same spirit they have , you can be snared into a trap that can pull you down.