Trauma makes you see their lack of effort as a sign for you to try harder, and their lack of response as a sign for you to prove your worth. Healing makes you see their lack of effort as their lack of interest in you, and their lack of response as your lack of importance to them.
everybody wants a good woman until that woman puts pressure on you! you can’t half way treat a woman right and not expect her to address the issue. it’s hard to find someone that’s always there, always available and doesn’t ask for anything but simple respect and communication
I was extremely sad for how someone treated me, but then I remembered how kind I am to people, that’s a reflection of me. How people treat me is a projection of their character, and not a reflection of my value.
May I always remember that. I'm taking my power back.
Some men today r so focused on makin women submit to them, they forget something important, a good woman can’t relax in an insecure environment. So think about that and the energy you bring, before you assume she doesn’t want to respect you😂 she might want to, she just can’t🫡
After a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn’t do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth… just basking in your toxicity huh?