spending half of your life repressing your wants and needs just for the sake of keeping everyone else happy is really going to turn you into a resentful person who hates the world and wants nothing to do with it
Lo más amable que hace la literatura es recordarte que tus pequeños sentimientos peculiares siempre han existido. Alguien, en algún siglo, se sintió igualmente confundido por el amor, aburrido por la sociedad, cansado de actuar y hambriento de significado.
Women get lonely too. But nobody worries about it, because lonely women don't turn violent - they enroll in grad school, create more art or adopt a rescue dog.
@drwxi It just means you change your perspective according to different point of views of others which is also very needed skill in this world of fixated views and opinions. As far as yk what's your core beliefs are you are good.
have you ever been so disgusted by someone’s way of thinking that you don’t even wanna engage with them nomore? like there’s genuinely no way you reason like that
I don’t play about embarrassment. I don’t play about public humiliation. Don’t ever put me in a position where people can laugh at me, judge me, or have something to say about me. If we’re together... partner or friend our ups and downs are PRIVATE. We might forgive each other, but outsiders don’t forget. It’s not just what you did, it’s HOW you did it. Once you hand my enemies anything to gossip about, it’s over. Everything you say or do after that is questionable.
no one is saying you have to like female characters preemptively on the basis of being female, they’re just saying maybe you should evaluate why you guys gag over the most basic barely designed males but criticize female characters more harshly than you would ever male characters
@JanuaryGirl0 Honestly this convos should happen between your bf and his mom like why would she feel comfortable to talk to you like that before reaching his own son . I dont understand if you that close have conversation with your own son
@Hoezmad64 I wish it too I either have people like you described or straight up very intrusive even when I say I am not comfortable they ask again it happened like alot. Where are meaningful conversations bring back normal shit I need mundane convos
Y’all be real loud about other people’s flaws, mistakes, and past, but dead silent when it’s time to speak on your own dirt. Quick to judge, quick to point fingers, quick to gossip, but slow when accountability show up.
The weirder you are willing to be, the more magnetic you become (because everyone wants permission to be their weird self - and you giving *yourself* permission gives them permission too)
Çalışkan, dürüst ve iyi ailelerde yetişen insanların en büyük sorunu, dış dünyayı da kendileri gibi adil ve şeffaf ilişkilerden oluşan bir yer olarak düşünmeleri ve her konuda bu saf inanca göre hareket etmeleridir. Oysa herkes sizin gibi değil. Herkesin ailesi sizin gibi ilkeli ya da terbiyeli değil. Herkes sizin gibi emeği, uzun süren çalışmaları, başkalarına özgür ve anlayışlı bir yerden yaklaşmayı sevmiyor. Birçok insan kısa yoldan güç, avantaj ve menfaat peşinde. Siz en güzel duygularınızı dürüstlükle sunarken; birçok insan küçük bir tebriğin, artı bir kuruşun ya da ufak bir zarar verme girişiminin dahi hesabını yapıyor. Bu yüzden çok dikkatli olmalısınız. İyiler kendi değerlerine sadık kalacak kadar iyi, başkalarına karşı kendilerini koruyacak kadar da zeki ve cesur olmalılar.
People are portals. When you sniff out an enemy, you have to cut out every single person attatched to them as well bc they will use the ppl who they think you’re still cool with as an energy access point to monitor you, attach a cord to you or play in your energetic feild.