i just saw a post that .."gays are not interested in making other people gay... but straight people are interested in making gay people straight. so who is forcing their sexuality on others?"
16 year old kid: I'm gay
Straight parents: you're too young to know that, it's just a phase!
Baby boy: *stares at a little girl for no reason other than the fact that babies stare at everything*
Straight parents: "what a ladies man! We're gonna have to keep the girls off of you!!"
bro to bro: if you like skinnier girls, get yourself a skinny girl. if you like thicker girls, get yourself a thick girl. if you like fitness girls, get yourself a fit girl. you are entitled to your own preferences.
but what you are not going to do bro, is date a girl who is not your type and make her feel inferior to other girls.
community college challenges every classist notion of education and academia and having access to it has changed my life. it should be preserved, supported, and destigmatized with everything we have. hard to name a more precious educational resource for those over 18.
You don’t need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fuck up, & actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time shit gets real.