@Prezain_LJ First time thing is what exactly do you expose your sense organs to? What do you watch? What do you hear? What do you talk? How do your friends view women? Lust doesn't just become uncontrollably in a single day. It starts with the raw materials you keep feeding your soul with.
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If you’re serious about escaping poverty and becoming valuable in 2026, do these:
1. Learn a high-income skill (copywriting, data analysis, UI/UX, forex, sales). In this economy, skill is survival.
2. Learn at least one extra language, French, Spanish, German… even Yoruba/Igbo/Hausa if it’s not your own. Languages open doors money cannot.
3. Read one book per month, your brain needs data more than your phone.
4. Work on your communication, English that is clean, confident, and clear will take you far.
5. Build a digital presence, in 2026, being invisible online is career suicide.
6. Network intentionally, Nigeria is a “who knows who” country.
7. Master one useful tech tool (Excel, Power BI, Canva, Notion, Figma, ChatGPT).
8. Improve your emotional control, Lagos alone will test your character.
9. Have at least one side hustle, never depend on only one stream of income.
10. Take your health seriously, gym, better food, routine checkups. Hospital bills in Nigeria are not friendly.
11. Look neat, not expensive, branding is power, packaging is currency.
12. Respect people’s time, professionalism is rare here; be different.
13. Keep your circle tight, too many people pretend to support you but pray for your downfall.
14. Learn how to sell, products, services, ideas. Sales is the true superpower.
15. Document your journey, Nigerians love growth stories. It builds trust & community.
2026 will reward those with skill, discipline, packaging, & visibility, not noise.
As a parent, I think this video has taught me something useful.
I recommend that you should try it on your kids, too.
I have also shared it with my wife.
Credit: joe_drummer_boy on IG.
I spend on a woman exactly the way she presents herself to me. If you present yourself as an “understanding girlfriend”, “wife material”, one naira you no go see for my hand. I will be extremely nonchalant. Once you have shown me you can manage, that’s the worst mistake you can ever make.
The way I spend on a woman depends on how I rate her. I can have two girls coming to see me from Lagos to Port Harcourt on different dates; I will book a flight for one and ask the other one to follow GUO transport.
How clean your skin is, the level of your exposure, the kind of wigs, perfumes, handbags, and clothes you wear, and how generally sophisticated a woman looks determines how I will treat her in a relationship. I can be very nonchalant, but not when I meet someone who knows her worth. Pretty, educated, got her own money, decent family background, them no born me well to be nonchalant. I’m definitely going to act right 😄.
If I see you have been to Maldives with your previous guy, I will aim towards taking you to Ibiza. If I see you don’t even have an international passport, na Ocabique for Port Harcourt I go carry you go.
This also counts for the level of gifts I could give you. I’m someone that loves wigs a lot and loves gifting them, but not to just any kind of girl. I can’t buy you a wig of 700k if I see you don’t even own a decent one when I met you.
The richer, well-exposed, and sophisticated the woman is, the more I raise the bar.
@Prezain_LJ@dharmmy_ You look expensive, I spend expensive Mindset.
Result is:
-"Power Couple" image with zero emotional intimacy.
-Sustainable for High-Value Dating but it is a high-risk strategy for Deep Connection.
-Not sustainable for Life-long Commitment.
Ladies pay attention, you'd learn.