Lately, I've been including this in my prayer: "If I'm not meant to have it, Lord, please remove the desire from my heart to want it, and help me find peace in its absence."
my therapist told me this and it hit me: “healing is so hard because it is a constant battle between your inner child who is scared and just wants safety.... your inner teenager who is angry and just wants justice.... and your current self-who is tired and just wants peace."
my last relationship taught me that the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. they're not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you won't walk away. never let someone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. love yourself first.
As a woman, you should never have to ask a man to act right. Let him do him. Don't ask him to stop Liking pictures of another girls. Don't ask him to show you off. Don't ask him for flowers. A man who loves you will do the MOST for you without asking. You ain't gotta teach him !
People want a woman with a big heart but what they don’t understand is that a woman with a big heart comes with big emotions. She’s passionate. She gets really sad and mad but she will love you like no other. You can’t have someone with a big heart and expect no emotions.