There is this lady who corrects idioms that have been wrongly said. She says it’s dhobi ka kutka (the washing stick) but people started saying it kutta which doesn’t make sense at all. Likewise, she says it is akal badi ya vyas (age) but people mispronounced it bhains.
as a lifelong good girl i will tell u nothing good ever comes out of being one. you have to be at least a little bit moofat, a little bit talk-backy & blunt & staunchly advocate for yourself (because no one else will) to live w some freedom & happiness as an Indian woman
I need to work on being a better friend. I’m just naturally distant and can unintentionally go long periods of time without talking to anybody. I’m tryna break this habit but it’s hard when you’re a real life hermit.