Being kept around is not the same as being chosen. You can always feel the difference. Being kept around means someone gives you just enough attention to keep you there, just enough affection to keep you hopeful and just enough effort to make you question whether you’re asking for too much. But being chosen feels different. You don’t have to constantly wonder where you stand, overanalyse every interaction or convince yourself that the bare minimum means something more. Someone can enjoy your presence, miss you when you’re gone and still not be willing to give you the relationship you deserve. Don’t confuse someone wanting access to you with someone genuinely wanting to build a life with you. You deserve to be chosen, not simply kept around because you’re convenient.
Stop letting people consume you. They didn’t call? Go to sleep. They didn’t message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn’t make an effort? Match their energy. Don't let anyone drain you of your happiness.
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Bagi yang belum tau wahai pengguna Iphone :
iPhone lo itu komputer 20jt yang ada di saku.
Tapi 95% orang cuma pake buat WA, IG, TikTok doang.
Padahal Apple sembunyiin 15 fitur 20jt di dalemnya yang bikin hidup lo 3x lebih gampang, tapi ga pernah lo buka.
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cara paling cepat buat detachment, atau lepas dari seseorang yang sebenarnya lo pengen banget ada di hidup lo, adalah dengan ngebiarin dia ngelakuin apa pun yang dia mau. dari situ, lo bakal lihat sebenarnya apa yang dia pilih. kalau dia milih buat kehilangan lo, ya biarin. kalau dia memilih orang lain, ya biarin juga.
“oh, ternyata dia emang nggak milih gue.”
tapi itu jauh lebih baik daripada lo terus-terusan ngabisin energi dan perasaan untuk orang yang memang nggak memilih lo. sometimes, closure doesn’t come from explanations. it comes from their actions.
Pesan dari Hanan Attaki:
"Jangan bersedih jika hidupmu tidak diratukan siapa-siapa. Allah itu Maha Adil. Dijadikannya bahu, kaki, pundak, mental, dan seluruh anggota tubuhmu lebih kuat agar kamu bisa meratukan dirimu sendiri tanpa bergantung pada manusia."
Sebab tidak semua orang ditakdirkan selalu memiliki tempat untuk bersandar. Ada orang-orang yang sejak awal hidupnya terbiasa menghadapi semuanya sendirian. Menangis sendiri, bangkit sendiri, menyembuhkan lukanya sendiri, dan belajar kuat tanpa banyak bantuan dari siapa pun.
Eight moods, one beautiful smile.
Gemini Nano Banana image
Prompt:
Generate a high-quality, realistic image featuring a young woman with vibrant, straight, shoulder-length red hair and soft wispy bangs, presented in a collage-style composition. The image should showcase eight distinct, candid close-up portraits of her, each capturing a different emotive expression, such as smiling, winking, looking surprised, appearing cozy, being playful, or laughing heartily. She should be dressed in a variety of comfortable, casual sweaters in different colors throughout the various frames, maintaining a soft, natural, and warm indoor lighting aesthetic. The overall setting should feel relaxed and domestic, incorporating subtle, out-of-focus background elements like indoor plants, bookshelves, or sunlit windows to enhance the intimate, lifestyle-photography feel depicted in the reference material.
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Prompt 👇
Prompt: Transform this photo into a whimsical folk flat illustration with doodle elements. Preserve the original composition and characters, but simplify all details into clean colorful flat shapes with a handmade childlike feel. Use pastel and vibrant colors, rosy cheeks, playful line art, cute decorative symbols, flowers, birds, swirls, and cozy urban background details.
Use this generic prompt to convert any [VISUAL] into playful, kid-style artwork. Prompt : A child's crayon drawing on white lined notebook paper. [DESCRIBE YOUR VISUAL HERE], drawn with chunky wax-crayon strokes, wobbly uneven outlines, and simple flat shapes. Bright bold colors with messy coloring that overflows the outlines. Visible heavy pressure marks, small waxy smudges, and uneven scribble shading. Important things are drawn disproportionately big, everything else is tiny. Round friendly faces with dot eyes and big curved smiles, mitten-shaped hands, and blobby rounded animals. A large yellow sun in one corner with radiating lines, puffy cloud shapes, and scattered hearts or stars. A few tiny margin doodles. Flat composition with no realistic perspective or shading. Childlike, joyful, naive art style.
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PROMPT:
Flat modern risograph-style poster illustration of [HUMAN], wearing [CLOTHING], sitting front-facing behind a simple café table with [ANIMAL] in [SCENERY]. Use [COLORS] as flat solid color blocks on warm cream paper, with simple black hand-drawn outlines, naive proportions, minimal facial features, tiny dash textures, visible speckled print grain, slightly imperfect registration, clean graphic shapes, playful folk-poster composition, and a calm centered layout. The background is [BACKGROUND], simplified into flat wall shapes, one framed poster, one window shape, one potted plant, and a few rounded hanging lanterns. Keep the table objects simple: one bottle, one glass, one plate of food, and two tiny charms. Rounded cream border, retro Japanese picture-book poster feel, aspect ratio 4:5.
🚨Gemini ahora puede ayudarte a crear, ilustrar y publicar un libro infantil sin contratar a un escritor o ilustrador.
Estos 9 prompts pueden llevarte de la idea a un libro listo para Amazon en solo unos días.
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HP temen gue hilang. Besoknya syok berat, tagihan Paylater Rp12 juta dari transaksi yang gak pernah dia lakuin.
Aplikasinya dengan enteng bilang, "Pelaku masuk pakai PIN asli, berarti kelalaian user."
Temen gue sampai depresi. Gue langsung turun tangan.
3 hari kemudian, tagihan itu resmi jadi Rp0. Total biaya jadi Rp0.
Ini yang gue lakuin:
Bukan nyari HP lewat GPS. Prioritas utama adalah, amankan semua akun finansial dari perangkat lain. Login dari device cadangan, force logout semua sesi aktif. Terus telpon operator, blokir SIM card sementara. Ini krusial biar pelaku gak bisa terima OTP via SMS.
Yang paling penting dan kebanyakan orang gak tahu yaitu, minta log IP address + Device ID dari semua transaksi. Email resmi ke CS, minta data lengkap. Ini bukti kuat kalau transaksi dilakuin dari perangkat dan lokasi yang BEDA dari lo.
Buat laporan polisi (STPL). Banyak orang males ke polisi, padahal ini bukti hukum resmi bahwa lo korban, bukan pelaku yang pura-pura hilang.
Kirim surat sanggahan resmi via EMAIL, bukan chat CS biasa. Lampirkan kronologi, foto STPL, permintaan pembekuan tagihan selama investigasi. Chat CS gampang diabaikan, email formal punya kekuatan hukum.
Mereka masih nolak? Lapor OJK. https://t.co/vDQmTDwwDW atau telpon 157. OJK punya wewenang penuh buat nindak platform yang abai perlindungan konsumen. Begitu laporan OJK masuk, respons mereka biasanya berubah 180 derajat.
Alasan "PIN asli = kelalaian user" itu gak valid secara hukum. POJK 6/2022 bilang perusahaan WAJIB punya verifikasi berlapis untuk transaksi tak wajar. Kalo sistem mereka gak bedain pemilik asli vs pelaku, itu kegagalan MEREKA.
Hasilnya, hari 1 laporan polisi + sanggahan. Hari 2 eskalasi OJK. Hari 3 tagihan Rp12 juta DIHAPUS jadi Rp0.
Btw, stop nyatet PIN di Notes HP lo.