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Break the cycle of family division. Don’t become the kind of uncle, aunt, brother, or sister you once complained about
•Childhood experiences shape us, but they should not define us. Many people grew up witnessing conflict among uncles, siblings, and extended family.
•Sibling rivalry has lasting consequences. When brothers and sisters fall out, it is often the children (nieces, nephews, and cousins) who lose relationships and support.
•Education and maturity should make us better. Success, wealth, or status should not make us repeat the same mistakes of previous generations.
•Being an uncle or aunt is a responsibility. Children in the family look up to you, and they deserve love, guidance, and protection not neglect because of disagreements with their parents.
•Property disputes after a sibling’s death are a moral test. A good sibling protects the deceased’s spouse, children, and property instead of exploiting them.
•Self-reflection is essential. Rather than judging others, ask yourself: Am I becoming the very uncle or aunt I used to criticize? #THEMENTALK Heal family relationships where possible, choose love over pride, and leave a legacy of unity instead of repeating generational conflicts.
*A SIMPING MAN*...part 24 #THEMENTALK https://t.co/HXRpyZveqn
*The mentalk standard*.
We described simping as a one sided romantic error.
Over doing your part in someone's life who can never give it back to u with the same energy just to show and express your feelings towards them.
Just like the way your pastor can never wake up one day and say we are done with the Bible syllabus..the mentalk will never wake up one day to say we are done talking about the common issues in a man's life.
In the Bible..Paul the apostle says we shall not fail to put you into rememberance if these things..
However common they look..we keep writing them that's why at times we give them headings of parts..meaning we have writen about the same topic over and over again.
SIMPING..#THEMENTALK.
We got a word of knowledge yrs back and dag deep to give a detailed description on how many boys have fallen victim.
At times it could because of copying western culture lack of what to do or stupid irrelevant feelings on someone who can't control themselves.
Or at times it can be ignorance.
We have it a phrase saying
*Don't be do husband duties when you are still a boyfriend*
No one has a manual of life and no one can/should dectate how u live your life.
We just give general over view so that u don't act stupid when u actually have brains...
Simping is one of the most crazy things done by most boys/men..because they want to show how they feel about someone.
Yes..by nature..karma has designed a man to be a hunter but even when we are hunters..we are not meant to simp.
*Who is a simp*
*What is simping*
A simp is one who exceeds his normal limits trying to prove the obvious.
He neglects himself to make a woman happy (that's not sacrifice..it's simping)
Much as we are meant to sacrifice but you come first.
When we were doing a book called reduce me to love.
The writer says .you can't give what you don't have.
A simp can take a credit (debt) to just make a woman happy.
A simp pays a girls school fees when she actually has her father (mark the English..a girl not a wife)
A simp pays a girls rent when he also gets upkeep from his parents.
A simp takes a quick loan just to make a birthday part for a girlfriend.
A simp has nothing t ok eat but is busy shopping foodstuffs for a girlfriend.
All the above and many more look like sacrifice and someone watching may interprete them as love but it's actually simping.
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*MASCULINITY* SAYS...*first work on yourself then work on others no matter the feelings*.
They (simps)
Always have lines of..I can Do anything for the love of my life.
But I love her
I feel like...
I just want to...
My heart beats for...
Al.the above looking or hearing them from aside look like love
But then the reality says...*LOVE IS NOT A FEELING BUT A REVELATION.*
What is this revelation saying..it's says..do all things but within your limits within the confines of commitment.
Most times what u describe as love is actually just lust and butterfly effect (are we teaching love now?)no.
We are saying....DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING BUT WITHIN YOUR LIMITS.
In Feb we compiled something called the cycle of poverty
One of the points we gave forth was about wrong irrelevant early marriages and irrelevant relationships.
One if those days..a good man said..btn age 25 to 35...its a deadly time for boys...some run mad trying to prove whole others build wealth at this age.
What do u mean brother you are paying rent for a girlfriend...
What do u mean u are paying her tution
But I love her and we shall marry after.
Yes I believe you but why are u doing it.
Are her parents dead?
No...but they are not able ..do u who is just a boyfriend u have taken over their roles?
Let's not go their
When we write things like this...some weak heads may think we are telling boys not to be responsible or they may think we are encouraging a stingy character
But ooh yeah...exceedingly too much sacrifice can't be love but simping.
Men, prioritize your hygiene and self-care. Stop rewearing dirty or torn boxers, replace old yellowed vests, worn-out toothbrushes, and old stockings. Use deodorant—it’s affordable, and good hygiene matters. Invest in yourself, not just in land, buildings, or other long-term goals. Self-care is self-love, even for things no one else sees. Don’t be so stingy with your own well-being. And don’t forget regular deworming. Value yourself first. #THEMENTALK
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Un père a dit à son fils : « Tu as obtenu ton diplôme avec mention. Voici une Coccinelle Volkswagen que j’ai achetée il y a de nombreuses années... Il a plus de 50 ans, mais avant de te le donner, emmène-le dans une concession en centre-ville et demande combien ils te proposent. »
Le fils est allé chez la concession, est revenu voir son père et a dit : « Ils m’ont proposé 10 000 $ parce que ça a l’air très usé. » Le père a dit : « Emmène-le dans un prêteur sur gages. »
Le fils est allé au prêteur sur gages, est revenu et a dit : « Ils ne m’ont offert que 1 000 $ parce qu’ils disent que c’est trop vieux. »
Finalement, le père a demandé à son fils d’emmener la voiture dans un club de voitures classiques pour la montrer là-bas. Le fils a pris la voiture jusqu’au club, est revenu et a dit : « Des gens au club m’ont proposé 100 000 $ ! car c’est une voiture très rare et recherchée parmi les membres. »
Le père dit à son fils : « Je voulais que tu comprennes que le bon endroit t’apprécie de la bonne manière. S’ils ne te valorisent pas, ne sois pas en colère ; ça veut juste dire que tu n’es pas au bon endroit. Ceux qui connaissent votre valeur sont ceux qui vous apprécient vraiment. Ne reste jamais dans un endroit où ils ne reconnaissent pas ta valeur ! »
And lastly
#THEMENTALK
There's some stupid head that has sent gifts and warm words to their pastor in form of father's (sijui papa..)day but has spent 3weeks without talking to their biological father (regardless of what happened)
That's not love
It's film acting.
Let's get back senses #THEMENTALK
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