This is what I mean when I say lesbianism alienates you from womanhood in a patriarchal society because cishet women often only understand their womanhood in relation to men. You cannot be a woman in a society that makes "being a woman" tied to serving a man.
I hate the brain dead take that he wouldnโt have done it if it werenโt for the healthcare system. His billionaire friends were gonna pay for every single bit of it, the point is that he was too proud to not figure out a way to pay it himself. Thatโs groundwork of his character!