this old lady once said “If you don't spend enough time getting to know yourself you'll end up absorbing everyone else's definition off you” felt this.
Im a lover girl. I love flowers. Little dates. Reassurance. Random gifts. Being spontaneous. When he opens the door for me. Deep talks. Forehead kisses. Matching. I just love… being loved.
There are men out here paying bills, sending cash apps for no reason, buying flowers, planning dates, genuinely just being nice and making life easier... So if you think I'm gonna just settle for a man saying wyd every 5 minutes, not planning dates and just wanting my body, you gotta be out your mind!!!
Date somebody who actually wants to experience LIFE with you. Not just dinner and sex. Museums, cooking classes, festivals, pottery, concerts, bookstores, road trips, EVERYTHING .
Your self-respect has to be stronger than your desire to feel loved. Never accept disrespect, inconsistency, or less than you deserve just because you’re afraid of losing someone. Being loved means nothing if you have to lose yourself to keep it.
this man sharing a quote said “ as a lady if you are educated, financially independent, disciplined, and strong, then there is nothing left for a man to offer you except the way he treats you” and i think it’s fact.
Communicate when you’re upset
Communicate how you feel about me
Communicate if you’re going through something
Communicate if you’re done
All those games, manipulation or tests don’t help fr, you’re killing the connection