people can apologize all they want but realistically doing certain things will permanently ruin a bond. and I believe religion has conditioned people that repenting absolves them of sin. but it does not. this isn’t a fairytale where u do evil and get forgiven for it
+ with people who have dealt with zero of their own trauma so every event has to become some emotional catastrophe where they release years of stored shit
Women with CPTSD need a calm, emotionally regulated man (or partner). They can’t be with someone who is unpredictable, has outbursts, plays games, or does things that can trigger dysregulation.
They need a kind, responsible, well-regulated man who understands that their needs may be different and that being in a relationship with someone with CPTSD may require a certain level of patience.
Lame ppl create chaos & drama in your life hoping you go crazy defending yourself enough that you turn into them & so does your life. It’s a destiny swap. Be careful what gets your attention.
Just walked past some kids in the street proper smashing the fuck out of loads of apples they’d somehow come across. Lobbing them at the wall of the community centre and that. That’s proper Playing Out that. You can stick your fucking iPads up your arse