@Jamesy_boy There’s more to sport than football and rugby. I love loads of sports but have never been to a rugby match, and only went to a football match once as a teenager (and left not knowing the score as I couldn’t follow what was happening). It was a draw apparently.
Relationship tip: when your partner makes an awful but innocent mistake (leaves their phone in the cab, forgets their passport when heading to the airport for an international flight, drops and shatters a beloved item, gets in a fender bender, etc.), don't get mad at them. It makes no sense (it was accidental) and it accomplishes nothing except supplementing an already bad situation with an unnecessary fight.
Instead, think about it like this: as a couple, you will commit like 20 of these hideous mistakes a year and who knew that one of them was gonna happen today, but it did, so that sucks, but it's also a little bit funny, and let's just make the best of it.
This turns those moments from relationship-damaging to relationship-building. And of course, what goes around comes around—you do dumb things too, and you'd much rather your partner be a laughing teammate than an angry parent in those situations.
I didn't used to do this, I learned it from my wife. I am a frequent committer of hideous mistakes, and it surprised me that she never got mad about it, and then I started being like that too.
Dear @BritishRowing , A poll was conducted recently among our members concerning trans-inclusion issues in the sport of Rowing IN THIS COUNTRY. The deadline for this poll has now passed and I'm sure I would have support in the community in demanding to know the outcome of it