btw it's so fucking stupid you can be anxious physically in your body even after you've decided mentally you don't care. I'm supposed to be in charge here.
i heard a therapist say, ‘your feelings are always valid, your behavior is not.’ she explained by saying feel what you feel but you need to be accountable for what you do as a result of those feelings.
Y'all ever met someone who will spend hours talking to you about themselves and the minute you mention just one thing about yourself they just stop listening or even try to talk about something else?😭
In trying so hard to avoid telling men not to rape, they’ve written a full care manual for handling a dangerous animal at the zoo.
Don’t feed it, don’t make sudden movements, don’t be alone with it.
Every line assumes the man is an uncontrollable animal and the woman’s job is to not provoke it
I used to believe in female privilege until I realized that what we consider ‘female privilege’ is actually rooted in sexual objectification and patriarchy. Random kindness in the hopeful exchange for something sexual
It is crazy how a single moment of misunderstanding can become so toxic that it makes you forget the thousands of lovely moments you have spent together with someone. Anger has a terrible way of rewriting history.