Went to Walmart the other day and cal kept trying to introduce himself to the cashier and she wouldn’t even look or talk to him and all I’m saying is if a 2 year old is talking to you plz just acknowledge them bc I could see how badly it hurt his feelings 😭
You are under no obligation to remain the same person you were a year ago, a month ago, or even a day ago. You are here to create yourself, continuously.
Having a partner in life should feel like just that. A partner. You both vs. the world, not you vs. them. You should feel emotionally safe, open and comfortable.. that’s when you know they’re worth sharing yourself with. Nothing should be demanded, and nothing should feel forced.
Relationships are meant to be happy and positive and loving. Period. Y’all can have a bad day. But you’re not supposed to feel stressed out, confused, angry, unloved, etc the MAJORITY of the time. That’s unacceptable.