@nuinroo@kdlovrr I think you should let this friend know how much you care about them and still want them around, but maybe you need to let them go do their own thing for the time being. I’ve gone through this too. I haven’t seen my bsf for two years and he lives 15 minutes away. Shits hard.
@nuinroo@kdlovrr Sometimes in life, people do not have the capacity to love you or show up for you in the way that you need or deserve. It isn’t your fault, and it’s not really theirs either. I understand your pain and it’s hard to not internalize their behavior
@nuinroo@kdlovrr someone who loves you and wants to be with you will always make time for you in spite of these things, or at the very least communicate why there is a lack of effort and try to make plans to make up for it at a later time
@rapistprincess it helps when u realize the initial love u have for a man is what ur body biologically does to make u fuck then u have babies and put all that love into ur children thereafter