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@Tolks6 It may not be about the friend being alone, the deceased must have been a nice person too. That's how God works, He most likely connects you to people to like-minded people (your types). God bless the faithful friend who returned the money with the interest.
@drbeckyenenche@drpaulenenche Happy birthday sir, keep inspiring millions as well captured in the message. May God grant you more revelation for more impacts sir,in Jesus' name. Amen
We sometimes get the warped impression that we have to fight hard to win God’s love. Like he’s a Divine Dad who, try as we might, never seems happy with us. A disapproving frown drags his face down. He is a cold, distant parent whose affections we crave but from whom a single “I love you” is heard once in a blue moon.
If that is your impression of our heavenly Father, then let Hosea’s words press upon you a different vision: “I will heal their apostasy; I will love them freely, for my anger has turned from them” (14:4). In this closing chapter of Hosea, the prophet is calling his people to come home to God, to return to the one from whom they have walked away.
And what will God do? Heal their apostasy. Bind up their self-wounded souls. And he will “love them freely.” Ah, such golden words!
The Hebrew for “freely” is נְדָבָה (n’davah). It's the same word used for the "freewill" or "voluntary" offerings of Israel. Unbound, unforced, God freely loves. This love is not caused by Israel’s repentance; it calls it forth. As Paul will later write, “God’s kindness is meant to lead you to repentance” (Rom. 2:4).
Freely, God rejoices over you for you are in his Son.
Freely, our Father smiles when he looks at you.
Freely, our Lord forgives, sustains, and will never tire of loving you.
You don’t have to fight hard to win God’s love. That love preceded your very existence.
God never started loving you because he has loved you with an everlasting love that knows neither beginning nor end. As John writes, "God is love" (1 John 4:8).
That love sent Jesus to reconcile you to himself. That love draws you into the very life of God.
Our Father says, “I will love them freely.” Thank you, Father. We love and praise you for your love and mercy toward us, given freely and abundantly in Christ.
A man who wants to marry you will not take more than six months to a year to decide, especially if he's obviously ready. I dated my lovely wife for nine years, yes, but I met her when both of us were nobodies.
And we were very young.
So we had all the time in our hands.
But I first made up my mind to marry my lovely wife within the first few weeks of meeting her.
Even though I never told her.
She had given me about 1,000 or 2,000 when I met her one day, and I told her that I wanted to go see my father but I was broke.
She gave me the money.
I had not spent a dime on her prior to that time.
I was very grateful, and I have never forgotten about it.
From then for 9 years, we were stuck with each other.
And God came through for us.
But this is my story.
Not yours.
And yours doesn't have to be like mine. As a lady, once you've crossed 25, any relationship you enter should have marriage as the end goal.
And it won't take him more than one year to decide that.
So you must be strategic in your choice.
Your late 20s are not for fooling or hoeing around.
They're for you to strategically position yourself for a man who would be interested in you, & possibly make you a wife.
And he doesn't have to be in his late 30s too.
A man that is just 2 years older than you may be more serious and committed.
And he doesn't have to be rich.
Neither does he need to have a car.
All he needs to have is a good job, a decent apartment, and a functioning & non-fraudulent brain and mindset.
A man between 28 and 35 would be happier to date you than a man in his late 30s.
If you're 26, he's 28 or 30.
If you're 28, he's 30 or 32.
You'd see the chemistry between you.
Please listen to me.
As long as you're willing to be respectful, not greedy, faithful and feminine, a man must marry you before you're 30.
If you meet those ones that are willing to share the little they have with you, in a form of provision in marriage, consider them.
Some men have more than enough as single men, but they're not willing to share unless you're willing to part with yours too.
Above all, you need the grace and mercy of God.
You may do everything right, but you might just be unfortunate enough to meet the wrong man.
So let's pray against that.
Do not let any man waste your time with endless promises and sweet preeq.
If within one year he has not introduced you to his mother and siblings at least, and told them that you're his girlfriend (not just a friend), then you need to rethink your relationship.
The siblings and mother should also show you that they like you and want you for their brother.
Yes, because if he says a lot of good things about you to them, you'd know from the way they treat and welcome you.
Lastly, please ensure that you cohabit at intervals.
I hope I have made sense to you.
Because you Gen Zs have coconut heads.
Person go dey talk enter one ear, e go dey commot from the other ear.
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@jon_d_doe This one enter well.
I am the type that can be totally committed to my family so I have to choose the woman who deserves this.
Thank you, Agba
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Your analysis hit the nail at the head, sir
Thank you
Agba this is powerful and it's not just a belief, it’s an unspoken law. A man can fight a thousand battles outside, but if he comes home to another war, his strength will eventually fail him.
There is a silent grace that follows a man who honours a good woman.
That is why choosing wisely is super important.
I have a very strong belief, but you don't have to agree with me.
If you work hard as a man to take good care of your wife, provide for her for the most part, & treat her with kindness.
You'll most always succeed in whatever you do.
But if she's a bad wife to you, despite doing all those.
You'll struggle badly, until she leaves your home.
The day you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.
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I want to say something to you my single followers, & please take it seriously.
For almost 6 years, I have constantly reminded us on why the love of money in a relationship, ruins it.
And that any relationship that can be sustained without money, is a healthy relationship.
Do not get me wrong.
There is no way that you can be in a relationship, & you won't spend money.
It's how you spend it, that matters.
Spending money at the right time in a relationship, will significantly eliminate entitlement, greed, & scarcity mindset, & possibility taking vengeance in cases where the relationship has gone sour.
And then, it sets a proper foundation for possible marriage, & financial challenges and management in the future.
Now, let's say as a man, you meet a lady that has decided to tame her greed, do things & behave in a way that is devoid of an entitled lady.
Please do not see it as an opportunity to take undue advantage of her.
Appreciate her for how she has decided to be different from the rest, & be kind to her.
If you know that you don't like her enough, do not continue to decieve her because you're getting free toto.
Now to the ladies.
I recall I also said many times, that even if you want to be pretending, please pretend well.
If your pretense is making you win your man's commitment, then it's a good thing.
See it as your working formulae, until it becomes part of you.
Do not pretend that you don't need your man's money, & be cheating on him with other men that are giving you money.
A young man was in my DM this morning, heartbroken.
What happened?
His girlfriend whom he thought would be his last, and then marry her, has been "pretending".
Showing him that she is not like the other girls. Not demanding for anything financial, but the man still does the best he can.
Only for him to discover recently, that she has been sending her nudes to different men for money.
And visiting some of them.
When he confronted her, the excuse was that he wasn't giving her enough money, and that she didn't want to be disturbing him.
And that her business wasn't doing well.
That's how their relationship crashed.
Now she's begging for a second chance, and that it won't repeat itself again.
Tell me...
Is she trying to say that, if they get married, and the man starts to experience some financial challenges, she would go and cheat?
Will getting married to her, really change her?
Now you understand why the love of money and greed, ruins relationships.
And the foundation that you lay with it in relationships, will go a long way in determining what your marriage would look like in the future.
I hope you all will see this thread as a wake up call.
Otherwise, you'll visit my DM in the future.
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