when we say it's hot girl summer,
WE ARE TALKING ABOUT DEGREES🎓@theestallion .
Two weeks ago, I graduated from University of Michigan-Flint earning my B.S. in Health Science w/minor in Health Care Administration. Despite all the adversity faced, I DID IT!
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I like when a man is direct. “I want to pursue you.” “Can I take you out on a date?” “I’m seeing other people.” “Will you be my girlfriend?” No blurred lines, no confusion, just clear intentions.
“you own me! you control me! i belong to you!”
“i love you. i’m in love with you. you’re the love of my life.”
“i wait for you, i watch for you. i exist for you…”
maaan those lines 🙂↔️ when ur in a yearning competition and ur opponent is fitz grant
i've realized all i truly want is someone who loves me the way i love them.And then it hit me. My love language isn't physical touch, it's reciprocity. It's effort that goes both ways. It's choosing me without being asked. It's checking in, showing up, and staying consistent. i want someone who gives back the same care, time, and energy i give. not more, not less, just equal. i don't want to chase love anymore. it should find me.
Stop letting a man who move funny run your emotions. If he can go ghost, act weird, and sleep peaceful at night, then you can remove yourself from his life and sleep even better. Don’t give power to inconsistency. If he can detach that easy, you can detach permanently. Choose you
Unfortunately I don't do nonchalant men. Be dominant. Be clingy. Be touchy. Watch my location. Plan dates. Show up. Bring freaking flowers. BE OBSESSED.
I highly recommend finding yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who's always super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who acts like showing love is a chore.
a cycle of consideration. excitement & safety — the freedom to share dreams, failures, and accomplishments. just one long, never-ending conversation, carrying each other (not as a burden) through life. that’s it.
Being a self aware person doesn't mean i view myself as a good person. i think a lot of people get that confused. it literally means that i am vigilant of both my light and dark side. i have also made peace with my flaws even though i'm always working through them.
People only love the idea of being in a relationship.
They want attention but can’t give it.
They want loyalty but can’t stay consistent.
They want intimacy but fear vulnerability.
I’m not built for casual relationships and flings.
I respect people who enjoy this and can separate emotions from it.I know myself
I get attached, I invest deeply, I care intentionally.
And pretending not to feel would only break me in the end.
i don't like dealing with people who make me feel like i'm losing my mind trying to get them to understand how i feel. I don't like having to keep shit bottled up inside. I don't like feeling like my feelings don't matter. I can't deal with anyone who makes me feel like that.
I'm in love with this quote:
"If it doesn't happen the way you wanted, it will happen in a better way than imagined.”
That's the beauty of God's plan."