tobi

sabi boy • living • product design • seit 92

[tobi @tobilisic]

yes. i love being me. i love my life. i love myself. and i’m grateful for all the ways my life is truly mine. a life that is 100% mine.

[babygirl @hoemie_]

on top of loving my life, i love MYSELF. i love being me so bad it makes me so incredibly happy to be as amazing as i am lol.

[🍓🍇🍊simply, me. @Aqua_or_Bob]

whenever something requires a "social game" i simply stop engaging

[ирис @saltwatermp3]

And for my next trick I will call my life beautiful and watch it instantly become so

[Ama @amackieee]

The last thing I’ll say on this classism discussion in Ghana: there are people who have held wealth and influence for centuries. They have the power to change the circumstances of this country. Neocolonialism is a factor, sure and our politicians are largely useless.

[tanya @tanyzusmpg]

people really act like hurting someone you love is some rare thing only bad people do.
you can hurt people through neglect, avoidance, poor communication, selfishness, broken promises, taking them for granted, or simply not realizing the impact of your actions. human relationships are in fact complicated.

[Hauwa 🌟🌬 @Hauwa_L]

Loke Loke Lola Kunfayakun.

[Nkay @carlella1]

It's so funny how sharing your experiences makes people think you are trying to portray where you are from in a bad light even though all those things actually happened to you.
You are not allowed to talk about it but they were allowed to do it to you?

[tanya @tanyzusmpg]

if you really became a better person after doing me wrong, wouldn’t accountability come with that? wouldn’t an apology be part of the growth? increasing your friendliness isn’t the same thing as addressing what happened. so what exactly are we talking about here?

[𝕁𝕁 @marsfirelight]

the most underrated relationship skill is repair. specifically immediate, literally within hours of conflict, repair.

[O T A K U @thinklikeotaku]

the most rebellious thing you can do in a world that profits from your insecurity is wake up every day and genuinely like yourself.

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

HAVE YOU EVER MET SOMEONE and just paused like… so nobody ever sat you down and told you about yourself??
Nobody ADDRESSED this behavior?
Because you’re standing there wondering how someone this difficult still has friends and family, and nobody’s ever called it out.

[PRETTYGIRLWITHGAME @Annodalxrob]

I pay attention to how people choose to treat me. Lack of empathy, consideration, reciprocity, and support is enough for me to end the connection. I don’t overanalyze or beg for clarity. I’m not obligated to stay where I’m not appreciated. I simply adjust accordingly.✍️

[Christopher. @Chris_JNdonga]

You can always tell that a person is never held accountable by the way they engage in conflict in their relationships with other people.

They believe that they’re always right and pride dictates their actions.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

Some of y’all will never grow because you have friends and family co-signing your foolishness instead of telling you the truth.

[adeniyi @lullabystarlust]

the idea abusers love you does NOT start with dating but in childhood

it starts with “accepting” your parents beating you is tough love. its keeping friends who belittle and mistreat you. the brain forms this toxic normalization long before a partner starts their abuse

[themidnightgospel✨ @khanyisile_____]

the way you guys are so reckless with people's emotions is scary.

the complete disregard for your impact on someone you chose to interact with is honestly? so sad.

there is no pride in being dead inside and moving with reckless abandon.

just leave people alone then.

[vizz ✮ @dankvizz]

some of you are really good at playing the victim in situations you created

[jason @cubana_WL]

Wisely o, foolishly o…. The money still Dey disappear 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[tobi @tobilisic]

africa is truly just one country 😢

[Wambui K. Collymore @WambuiKamiru]

Our parents are being conditioned to think young people are unruly. So that the message that we need to tame our youth sits better than our youth are fighting for us.

[tobi @tobilisic]

2002, 2006, 2010, 2014, 2018, 2022

[Dan @001Oxygen]

Are there people on this app who have Watched more than 4 world cups ?

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

i think very highly of myself; not out of ego, but because of growth. i know exactly what it took for me to become me.