cranky old bat

middle aged divorcee tired of the dating and friendship landscape

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

I felt Miley Cyrus when she said:
"I didn't talk badly about you. I talked about what you did to me. If that makes you look bad, that's between you and your behavior. Because telling the truth about my experience isn't bitterness. It's clarity. And I'm not responsible for protecting someone's image when they had no problem damaging my peace."
Sometimes the truth only sounds harsh because someone benefited from the silence

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@Mic_kaella Sorreh?

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@JordanBrace8 @vinmach03 @LibOrNormal At 16 you should be allowed some boundaries and privacy. Telling your parent EVERYTHING is not normal. Teenage years are about individuation.

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@Dearme2_ Oh, and porn sick. 🤢

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@Dearme2_ People will sit here and blame women but a large chunk of modern men are lazy, inconsistent, passive, avoidant, etc. Men lead. Women follow. 🤷‍♀���

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@DaizyZeeX My standards are the bare minimum, and I’d rather die alone surrounded by cat shit than tolerate less than the bare minimum (consistency, honesty, and integrity)

[Andrea D. Huberwoman, Ph.D. @thegenesisbl0ck]

Girls don’t like the nice guy because he’s not disagreeable, which is an inherently masculine trait. You still have to be a gentleman, just don’t be nice. That’s icky.

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@OG_umaru @ALongwood19953 @xAsamoahx Nope. The nervous system naturally latches onto it. You can’t intellectualize your way out of it since it’s a biological thing. Eventually yes you’ll give yourself closure as your nervous system realizes it will never get answers and start filling it away anyway.

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Yeah who knows what she meant. Personally I’m referring to doormats who can’t say no and are super eager to please their woman. Yes be kind…sometimes, but don’t do whatever she wants when she wants it. If a guy can’t hold his ground and lead (without being unempathic or a prick), a woman just won’t respect him.

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@ThePizzaGuy98 @TradVillages @TheJoeySwoll At least you’re honest about it unlike most people

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@ThePizzaGuy98 @TradVillages @TheJoeySwoll You’re just selfish lol

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

i start to miss them & then remember how nasty and cruel they were in our last moments, as if they had hated me the entire time

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@reddmichaels @vidxn_ They do this with everyone tho not just APs

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@gustheblondguy @AkadeBemsen You don’t need stranger’s permission to do something 🤣

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@universe_u70293 Access without accountability. That’s all this is.

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The older I get, the less willing I am to put up with people’s bullshit. Switch up on me and I’m ghost.

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@tvix25 Matters more when they have nothing to hide or even gain years later. Had a childhood bully apologize to me. Meant a lot.

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@Williamsjack22 Dated a guy for a month who love bombed me and made me feel special then started going hot and cold then pointed a knife at me one night. Never know what went wrong + dealing with the trauma of having someone switch up on me like that even six months later. 🫩

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@libriscent You return that energy and they come chasing. 🫩

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@tvix25 Happy is one thing. What really stings is seeing them treat the new one way better than they ever did you.