Eneh John, PhD

Special Assistant to Akwa Ibom State Governor on Media, PhD Comm. Studies, Lecturer, Journalist, ANIPR.

[Eneh John, PhD @enehjohn1]

A REPUTATION FOUNDED ON INTEGRITY MUST BE NURTURED BY TRUTH.

[Praise George @praisegeorge]

Your cook,
Your driver,
Your workers,
Your housemaid,
Will steal from you and leave you bankrupt if you give them the opportunity.

Never trust the poor.

[Praise George @praisegeorge]

Under no circumstances should you be in a relationship with a poor person.

A relationship with a poor person is always a bad decision.

[EKÙN II🐯🐅(Tiger de 2nd) @ekun_II]

Once a woman is emotionally attached to someone who is not her husband, even if they eventually break up with that person, her husband can never enjoy her the way he use to. It takes only God's intervention.

Men: by all means, guard your home!!! Because it all rises and falls on you.

[Eneh John, PhD @enehjohn1]

@EkyDorlyn @itsSh0la This is highly manipulative.

[Praise George @praisegeorge]

When it comes to relationships, women are way more intentional than men. Men are too quick to make a commitment to a random woman because she's pretty and has a sexy body. Men are moved by sexual chemistry and make mistakes, dating useless women who bring them no value.

But a woman will play hard to get for some days or weeks. While she's doing this she's conducting a background check on you to see if you have enough resources to make her life comfortable. Women don't make a commitment based on emotions. They make a commitment to a man's resources based on facts and the hard evidence they see.
Women know that men will never do due diligence to make sure the woman is not a liability. They will bamboozle him with love and sex to make sure he never digs deep to find out what he needs to know about them.

Men should do better and start copying women in this regard.

[Eneh John, PhD @enehjohn1]

@DadaGodgift @MindOfHeadking I met my woman a Virgin at 27.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Good submission.

I have always said that marriage thrives on 3 major principles.

1) kindness
2) selflessness
3) deliberate commitment

Be you a Christian, Muslim, traditionalist or atheist.

If you ignore these 3 principles, your marriage will crack.

And in most cases, a failed marriage is not necessarily a divorced marriage.

I fear for the future of marriages.

What we are witnessing with the younger generation is chaos.

This morning, I brought up the topic of debauchery being displayed on social media and the lack of shame being displayed by our young girls, often aided by stupid men.

And I said that I am worried.

These young girls are supposed to be future wives and mothers to unsuspecting men.

Truth is, for any young girl to be bold enough to display such shame online, there would be no way that she would make a good wife.

And so all it takes is time.

The unfortunate men who would marry them would later get to know that they made a terrible mistake.

And then they would opt for the option of walking away quietly.

Many of our young girls are a disgrace.

Poor in thinking and lack absolute shame and decorum.

And this is why scientists and researchers have tagged the Gen Zs as the generation with the least cognitive ability or thinking.

Many of them would need to check into a mental home in the future.

Because they would be depressed and frustrated by the poor choices that they made.

And their innocent children would suffer for it.

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[Eneh John, PhD @enehjohn1]

@jon_d_doe The moral decadence is terrible. This is you preaching morality, then imagine how they've fared academically. Lecturers have seen worst from them. A student will present seminar and be saying "ASAP or "on point. " This generation is a finished generation

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If your wife is a Gen Z mother, please quietly observe whether she can help your kids with their arithmetic and other assignments.

Some of you would be disappointed.

Even when your wife is a university graduate.

Your wife na olodo.

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[Shola 👑 @itsSh0la]

There’s no excuse that will fly for a woman who didn’t gift her partner on his birthday. She had 364 days to prepare for just one day. If she didn’t gift you on your own birthday, she doesn’t deserve being gifted on her own birthday.

Men need to normalize taking care of women who take care of them only. If your women rates you, she’d make your birthday special for you.

And yes, they lied to you; women are actually gifters, but only to men they love or respect.

It even gets worse when she gave you nothing and still feels entitled to getting gifts from you on her own birthday, disappoint her, let her get angry for that reason, let her break up if she wants to. At least you’d know the relationship means nothing to her, and she was only in it to take from you.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

There is no way two adults from different homes, upbringing & experiences would come together to cohabit or be married as a man & a woman, & they'll not have a fight, quarrel or arguments.

And it starts from relationships.

If you're not ready to sow the pains, then you do not deserve to reap from the joy.

Relationship frictions are not necessarily red flags.

What is a red flag is extreme violence, threat to life, and when there is more quarrels than peace.

Do not go into any relationship, hoping that it will always be peaceful.

Otherwise, you're in a relationship where you're either pretending, not being yourself or burying the dirts under the rug to make the living room look beautiful.

Your partner must provoke you.

Your partner will test your resolve, & sometimes, do the unexpected.

This is how you train each other to learn how to tolerate yourselves.

And then, you snap out of it, and keep pushing.

I have always taught that the first 5 years of marriage is mostly the difficult phase.

Even if you cohabited during your relationship.

But what cohabitation will teach you, is experience.

Somethings you'd experience within your first 5 years in marriage, may not be new to you.

And you'd not have to be going out of your matrimonial homes to seek for help from "outsiders" at the slightest provocation.

Your wife may tear your boxers one day.

Your wife may seize your car keys or block the door so that you would not go out.

Your wife may refuse to cook your meal or serve you, even if she has cooked your meal.

Your wife may annoy you for nothing.

You as a man must learn tolerance, & learn that not all emotional outbursts would lead to physical violence.

Your husband may hit you out of anger.

Your husband may refuse to eat your food because you annoyed him.

Your husband may go out of the house, refuse to pick your calls, & come back very late, without responding to your greeting.

Your husband may cheat on you, too.

You as the wife, must find ways to manipulate him in a healthy way, use your feminine energy, and show him that you're still his queen, regardless.

Learn how to keep quiet when he's angry.

And learn how to speak when he's calm.

When you see couples celebrating 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30, 35 years of marriage, they're not telling you that it has been all rosy through the years.

They're telling you that they have persevered, tolerated each other and made sacrifices and compromises for each other.

Stop thinking that they performed magic.

They did not.

And even if those people are your parents, you do not know their real struggles.

What you know is what they decided to show you.

Go and get married, and see if you would do better than they did.

End.

[Eneh John, PhD @enehjohn1]

@SophieAgolia @jon_d_doe Interesting. He was my principal in secondary school. Extend my good wishes to him, please.

[Eneh John, PhD @enehjohn1]

@SophieAgolia @jon_d_doe Are you related to Mr. Agolia, who was a Principal in Government Comprehensive Secondary School, Borokiri, Ph?

[Eneh John, PhD @enehjohn1]

@jon_d_doe Don't be surprise. If your friend asks her to join him to the UK, she'll jump on the offer.

[THE ODD THINKERS @the_oddmind]

Agba is stearing the hornets nest.
Modern Pentecost christians will come for you chief!

Polygamy wasn’t completely unknown in the wider Roman Empire, but Roman law itself promoted monogamous marriage as early Christians adopted this standard quickly and polygamy was treated as incompatible with Christian life, especially for leaders.

By the 4th century, the Church uniformly taught monogamy as the only valid Christian marriage.

St. Augustine (354–430) argued that monogamy was part of God’s plan and binding on Christians.

Over the Middle Ages, canon law codified it further, treating polygamy as invalid and sinful.

Canon law (Gratian’s Decretum, 1140 AD) formally enshrined monogamy as a universal requirement for Christian marriage.

The Council of Trent (1545–1563) later reaffirmed this against any possible deviations during the Reformation period.

[Eneh John, PhD @enehjohn1]

E nor pass like this

[Eneh John, PhD @enehjohn1]

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[Shola 👑 @itsSh0la]

A girl once told me that any man she marries must carry her responsibilities 100%, that that is what she’s used to, by tribe and family. She then said men are providers, it’s in your Bible. I told her I don’t mind providing 100% for my family without my wife dropping anything no matter how small, as long as she’s not working, as long as she’s useful at home and seated where I put her, I’m okay with that since your salary is useless to the home, what’s the point of you working then? Sit your useIess ass at home woman!!!

I then told her, the second option I could accept is me taking care of everything at home, the kids too, but anything that has to do with her personal needs, that doesn’t benefit the home at all, my money won’t be there. She then said I’m not ready to marry.

You can’t just be making money and not be helpful at home, this is a man you claim you love and provides for you, but supporting him is a problem? And this is why a lot of men d!e early. Carrying heavy loads while these women who don’t care about them but just want their money just keep draining them til they d!e.

Men need to wake up, a supportive woman or you stay single. Don’t settle!!!

[Shola 👑 @itsSh0la]

A lot of men are obsessed with putting their pen!s between a woman legs and are ready to do just anything for it, that is why women have power over them.

Learn how to control your sexual urges and watch women become unable to manipulate/use you. They’d become powerless that way.