Cheating is a character flaw and I wish people weren’t so forgiving about it. It shows a willingness to deceive, to prioritize short-term desire over integrity, and to disregard the trust someone else has placed in them.
Disgusting.
Flirting is cheating.
Meeting up with someone and hiding it from your partner is cheating.
Entertaining, messaging, snapping, or texting someone behind your partner’s back is cheating.
Once you start hiding, deleting, or putting your phone on Do Not Disturb around your partner to keep certain notifications secret, it’s cheating.
Stop watering down what cheating is, because it doesn’t have to be physical.
Disrespect and betrayal always begin mentally long before they ever become physical.
ppl lack of accountability then say, “u could’ve talked to me” no, i couldn’t. u don’t listen. u deflect. u twist everything into an attack and then play victim. conversations with u aren’t healing, they’re exhausting. and honestly, i don’t owe my peace to someone who only shows up to win an argument, not to understand
You need other women. Female friendship isn’t optional. It’s essential. It is resistance and it's refuge. Not just for company,but for survival. For the kind of love that doesn't demand performance or perfection,just presence. In the moments when the world expects you to hold it