i don't wanna "win" the argument or feel "right". that's not the point. i just wanna feel like we've come to an understanding on the issue at hand. i want both of us to walk away feeling heard & understood. gemme that & i promise it's me & u 4L
Women rarely ‘just end up’ with bare-minimum men. They are slowly convinced that asking for more makes them ungrateful.
By the time she is doing all the emotional and practical work, she thinks it’s love. She gets so used to betraying herself to keep the relationship alive that she forgets that this isn’t what love feels like.
Y'all disrespect women all day, every day, and expect the world to respect your daughter because she's yours... I got some news for you, pal. She's going to grow up and see right through you. She'll watch how you treat her mother, how you talk about her friends, and how you look at women on the street. You can't cheat the system. You reap exactly what you sow. You poisoned the well. Dont expect her to drink clean water.
hmmm i mind if they talk shit but i don’t mind if they vent to try to figure out how to approach me/seeking the perspective of someone else who knows and loves us both and has our best interests in mind