The most powerful way to counter this narrative isn't by rushing to list our tech founders & CEOs. While those achievements are amazing, our first response should really be dismantling the stigma around care work itself.
When we immediately pivot to highlighting "bigger" accomplishments, we inadvertently validate the pastor's underlying insult, that care work is something to be ashamed of. It's not.
There is absolute dignity in honest, essential labor. Caring for the vulnerable, working those long shifts, & yes, changing diapers, is incredibly honorable work that keeps entire societies functioning. This is what we should be emphasized.
We can absolutely celebrate the startup founders & the care home owners, but we need to put just as much respect on the frontline care workers. There's zero shame in making an honest living.