My last relationship really opened my eyes. Going back again and again don’t mean nothing gon change. You can love harder, be more patient, give chance after chance, pray on it, wait on potential, and still end up right back where you started. Same problems. Same excuses. Same patterns. Same disappointment. I learned that effort don’t fix what someone refuses to change.
At some point you gotta be honest with yourself. Hoping for a different outcome from the same situation is just delaying the lesson. Not everything is meant to be repaired. Some things only exist to teach you what you will and won’t tolerate. And once that lesson hit, you move different. You stop forcing, stop chasing, stop romanticizing struggle. That relationship didn’t just end, it shifted how I love, how I choose, and how I protect my peace.
The best decision l ever made was to be quiet. I have nothing to prove. I'm not convincing anyone that I'm a great person. I'm not fixing what I didn't break. I'm not fighting for anyone to see my worth. Whatever you do is on you. Just hope you don't regret it. As for me, I'm moving forward, free and at peace.
I'm not a "cooking is my passion girly" it is absolutely a labor of love for me. So if I'm cooking I really do care for you because I pretend I can't cook most times