@Levin_yx@softangrygirl Medically speaking vulva is the external organ. Vagina is the entrance that extends to the cervix. They are different parts and you cannot refer to one with that name. We just need to find a new one.
Day 2 of trying to draw every hsr character‼️‼️
does it count if a make a secret 3rd nonbinary trailblazer who goes by they/them and is called Stellus as a replacement for the other two...
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#stelle#caelus#trailblazer
“I don’t understand why women don’t just report it if it really happened.”
When I was 19, I reported mine. I had bruises. Hospital photos. Text messages of him apologizing the next morning. My friends drove me to the station because I could barely stop shaking. I thought evidence would make it simple. I thought truth would be enough.
Months later, I was the one on trial. His lawyer printed my Instagram photos and held them up in court. Asked why I wore crop tops. Asked why I drank that night. Asked why I didn’t scream louder. He replayed my police interview and pointed out every time I hesitated, every time I cried, every time my timeline wasn’t perfectly linear. “If it was traumatic,” he said, “why can’t she remember clearly?”
Sitting there while strangers debated my pain like it was a group project felt like being stripped again. My messages were projected on a screen. My body was described in detail. My character was picked apart like that was the real crime.
He walked out on bail. I walked out with panic attacks.
That’s why some women don’t report. Because even with bruises. Even with screenshots. Even when you do everything “right.” You still have to survive the assault twice, once in private, and once in public, just to maybe be believed.
And if I pointed out how this fandom calls queer ships fetish ships because they “never met” but quickly switch up on the straight ones and say “its just a rarepair!”, would I get nuked?